I've never had any experience with anyone of the same sex....but for the last two months I can't stop thinking about this one girl at work. Everytime I see her I get nervous and horny. At night I can't sleep thinking about her. I even broke up with my boyfriend because I can't stand his touch...I've tried to initiate a friendship but I get the vibe she's no where near what I'm feeling and she is always mentioning her boyfriend.. I need to take into consideration that I am at work and I don't want to jeapordize my job, but she's driving me crazy. Help!!
2006-06-23 04:23:58 · 24 answers · asked by Dee Dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even though you are attracted to this woman dont alter your life for her. especially when the feeling does not seem to be mutual. have u expressed your attraction? or would this cause more conflict, like a sexual harassment lawsuit? we, as in the general people here, cannot advise you on how u feel only on what to or how to handle your situation. if you let her know that u are attracted to her and the feeling is not mutual, will life go on, yes!! however it may complicate things at work as well as your personal life away from work, and this is what, in my opinion, should be wweighed in comparison..is it worth it? ask yourself, can or will there be another woman or man that i am attracted to in the same manner that will share my feelings and attractions as well? the answer to this question should be yess, because if the feelings arent mutual there is no relationship but you setting yourself up to be hurt, even more than you already are, have been, or will be....when u tell her u are attracted to her and her reply is the feeling is not mutual....
2006-06-23 05:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by DELICIOUS EYE CANDY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before too, even though I've never crossed over the line, and I'm very into men, I've had these feeling every once in awhile, but if you ignore it long enough it may pass. If it doesn't, maybe you need to accept that you may be bisexual. In any case, I wouldn't cross over that line at work, with either sex, it could come back to bite your butt, and it's just not worth it to get hit with a sexual harassment case. Be careful, and good luck!
2006-06-23 04:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult situation - look at it as though this is a guy that is not interested and approach that way - when i get hi on by gay guys it is flattering, but its like being hit on by a woman i find completely unnattractive. I guess this is the reverse - you are at work too, so be careful - this is a double edged sword - hitting on a co-worker and introducing additional sexuality (in any way, this is a difficult territory) -
head to a strip club and find a look-a-like and get a lapdance.
2006-06-23 04:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Qmarc Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me the more you have the urge for this girl at work and she continues to turn you down or give you any signs of no friendship you'll begin to dislike her and move on to someone who is interested in you.
2006-06-23 04:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Re15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may just want to be friends with her, so you and her can go get some good looking guys. Dont confuse this with having an attraction to her
2006-06-23 04:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by Darthritus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just ask her on the cool if she into girls as simple as that and if she says no she might ask if you are and firmly say hey im thinking about trying it im a little curious that it think about your are both grown adults and its an adult conversation but just dont bring it out of nowhere just add it to your conversation
2006-06-23 04:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything ever happens between the two of you, send me some pictures.
2006-06-23 04:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are a freak. The round peg goes in the round hole. Not the round hole on the round hole. It doesn't work that way.
2006-06-23 04:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by swaman33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try dating other women..... see if it's just and infatuation or if you really like woman. If she not intersted in anything more... don't push it.
2006-06-23 04:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend ruined it for the rest of us "real men"
2006-06-23 04:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by Daddy-o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋