how do you ask your girl friend if she is all right with a threesome without makeing her think you dont care?

Question

i dopnt want my girl friend to get mad ast me, but would liek to know what she thinks about it, and i dsont know how to ask her!

Answer 1

You can ask her a general question, like what does she think of the idea, without suggesting you want to do it. You can also ask her first if she's ever thought about sex with a chick. Her answers will tell you whether or not you should ask her.

I will say though, if you really love her, don't do it. Introducing a third party into a relationship is asking for trouble. Most open relationships don't last.

Now what are you going to do if she likes the idea but wants to do it with two guys instead of two girls? You open the can of worms, you may get an answer you're not expecting! And fair's fair...if you get your wish, she's entitled to hers!

Answer 2

You can start off the conversation by going like, "You're so hot I wish I had two of you! Then I could have a super-hot threesome with you, and another you." The conversation will most likely develop nicely from there. Just make sure to remind her that this is not an unreasonable thing for you to fantasize about, because almost every guy on the freaking planet does too.

Answer 3

The best way to find out if this would be OK with her or something she would like, is to talk about various fantasies with her. Share your sexual fantasies with her and ask her what fantasy she would like. When the subject of your threesome comes up, ask her if she would be open to that and how she feels about it. And listen to her feelings.

Of course all of this depends on if you communicate regularly with her, and that you have already had sex, especially if you have shared fantasies and done pleasure for each other (without a third person involved). Oh BTW, a threesome is probably the most popular male fantasy, and it is often sometimes better in the mind than in reality.

Answer 4

What most guys do not know is there are many girls out there that are Bi-curious. Asking is the only way you would know the truth. Problem is after a threesome of any kind relationships get tainted........I could say things start going down hill.......so think carefully. As the saying goes, think before you leap!

Answer 5

Actually, most girls are ok with a 3-some but only in there mind, they are either to embarrassed to say it's ok or think it makes them a lesbian if they do it, or are scared that if they do it they will lose their man. Yes you have to be careful with the STD's etc... but most girls fantasies about it at one point or another, it does turn them on, but to actually get them to do it is another thing. So be careful, it will be a touchy question, you could tick her off and make her feel she isn't enough for you, or make her feel that you want someone else and then she won't trust you. You are walking a thin line with it! Good luck in whatever you decide!

Answer 6

If you want to get AIDS, then go ahead and do it, if not be a normal human and have sex with one woman at a time. You are a freak if you want to have a threesome.

Answer 7

If you don't know HOW to ask her then you shouldn't be asking her at all. I'm not a believer in group sex, but some people obviously are. However, if you can't talk to your partner about your desires, then that is the bigger issue.

Answer 8

First off use spell check more often. Just ask her what she would think about it, if she doesn't like it then you don't have to tell her that you want one. Test the waters before you dive in.

Answer 9

yes she will probably go for two guys and one girl, not the other way around though, all you are doing is asking for trouble.

Answer 10

The answer is NO, it's always NO.
Just forget it, unless your talking 2 guys and one girl... LOL