i just got asked out by a guy"andrew" and I ABSOLUTLY HATE HIM!!! i love another guy"ryan" and i want to wait to ask or b asked out by him. but im so desperate 4 a b/f that i ALMOST sed yes. but i didnt. and now "andrew" wont leave me alone... he keeps asking why. i told him that i loved som 1 else, that it would b akward and hes a prep. plus i dont like his frends. they lets just say "grabbed" me in a wrong way. i also think its EXTREMELY odd that after hed asked & gone out w/ all of the popular cheerleaders and they broke up w/ andrew NOW he wants 2 ask me out even though i asked him about three months ago and he sed no. also his frend who is also 1 of my best frends asked me out 4 him. so is he a loser or wat? wat should i do 2 make my relationship with my guy best frend not awkward? how can i 4get about andrew? HELP!!!
2006-06-23 03:41:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kaylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem with one of my guy friends. He asked me out and I said no and then he wouldnt leave me alone. I just asked out my crush and he said yes so my guy friend left me alone....Hope that I helped
2006-06-23 03:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Karissa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Andrew is playing the field, just using the girls. Just tell him that you want to stay friends, if you dated and broke up later on, the friendship will be gone forever.
As far as Ryan goes........ Dont wait for him to ask, you go and ask him out. Then you will know where you stand. If he goes out with you, you both win, but if he rejects the idea, then you know where you stand and you can move on. For everyone out there, there is another.
2006-06-23 03:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Firs of all this guy Andrew sounds extremly immature and really desparate for attention. If he went out with a lot of different cheerleaders, what makes you think that he will respect you? He just might ending up dumping you just like those other bimbos. You are a respecful and kind person and not to be taken advantage of. As far as his friends touching you, they need to really step off or you need to kick them in the balls or get someone to kick thier assets. Thats is sexual harrasment for one, and two thats major disrespect there and you deserve much better than that. One of your friends shouldnt have asked another guy out for you without our consent.
As far as Ryan, let him come to you, if you go to him, he is going to think you all on his diick and you want to present yourself the way you have been: respectul, openminded and sweet. If Ryan does not notice you--and trust me I understand about liking someone alot and them noticing you and thats ok, dont panic--then dont get yourself all stressed out. Someone will come along for you.
To answer your question further, tell andrew STRAIGHT UP that you are not interested and that you do not like him. If you say softly, "I dont like you" he wont think you are serious enuff, or even if you yell it at him, you have to keep telling him so he will GET IT! You dont need a stalker, and plus you already know how his triflin friends is, you dont need the extra stress. He'll get over it, if he grows up. how you forget about him, GIVE HIM THE SILENT TREATMENT! IGNORE IS STUPID ASSS!
Yes he is a loser.
Take your time, there are plenty of guys that are and will be interested in you and will treat you with the respect, kindness, and hopefully love that you want.
2006-06-23 04:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by nyc_ladydragonsamauri007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about Andrew hes a loser. Ask Ryan out and if he says no move on but if he says yes have the time of your life dating him!
Good luck. : )
2006-06-23 03:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by smartchika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋