Why don't girls be more focused on choosing a husband..it it an Very important step?

Answer 1

i agree with you! but now it seems they are more focused on other things that are also important but not as important as getting married and starting a family thats how the world continues to exist! to me its the one thing that you decide that requires the most attention and the most vigorous screening process!

Answer 2

Most girls are not focused because now a days men can't be trusted. I know that I don't want to look for a husband I want it to just happen. Life is to short to worrying about finding a husband.

Answer 3

Many women tend to focus on bettering their own lives and supporting themselves so that they can enter into a relationship that enhances their life. A husband should not "complete" a women; a woman should already feel complete and then enter into a marriage to enhance her life. Also, many women feel that they will find the right man when the time is right. It's after finding the right man that someone should get married. Someone shouldn't decide that she wants to get married and then try to find a guy just to marry.

Answer 4

im 23 and been with the same person for 6 and a half years and had 2 kids with him and im still waiting for him to propose so the question is more why do men look for a good time and not a faithful wife anymore.

Answer 5

With the divorce rate over 50% I would say everybody isn't focused.

Answer 6

I am from the U.S.A. and here we do not automatically think or believe young women should jump into marriage. We want our daughters to go out into the world and discover who they are, what the find joy in, what excites them about life and to utilize their skills. We want our daughters to grow and mature, discovering their core inner streangth and have a solid understanding of who they are, what they are capable of, what their potential is. Once they grow and mature into strong young woman with a solid core of self worth, then, if they chose to, they can find a man who would be a campanion in life. Each person must bring 100% into the marriage, not 50% each, but all of who they are. If they are too young, have rushed into marriage not knowing who they are, what they believe in, what theie skills and talents are, or have a solid foundation of self esteem and confidence, what can they really bring to a relationship?

It is important for both men and women to go out into the world and find who they are, grow in maturity and develope into the whole person they will be. When we are very young, in our late teens or early twenties, we do not really know yet who we are, what we truly believe is right and just in this world. The young may think they know every thing but it is only after living a while that we truly discover we really do not know much after all. Once we get there and have a firm understanding of who we are, what our potential is and work on reaching those potentials do we become really ready for a relationship such as marriage and raising our own children. Having a family of our own. If this is what an individual wants from life. Some may discover they really do not wish to have a long term committed relationship or to have children. If these people had rushed into marriage at a young age, before they learned this about them selves, had children, they would be miserable, the children would be scarred, and the marriage would fail. God wants each of us to be happy, to have joy in life. He does not encourage selfishness, but we are to discover who we are and then follow his plan for our lives. Marriage and children is not for everyone. For most, yeah, but not for everyone. In order to discover if you are one who is not suited for marriage or children you first have to live a bit, grow, learn who you are and what your core values are. The very young, while passionate are only partially formed. It takes several years before the begin to be fully formed adults. Some never become full formed adults, for many reasons. A lot of dysfunction would be avoided if our youth took the time to learn who they are and allow themselves to mature and develope before entering into a relationship such as marriage and having children.

This is why so many of our young women are not focused on "finding or chooseing" a husband right out of highschool. They have a right to find out who they are before committing to a relationship which may not be right for them. It is difficult to make a fully informed and rational decision of a life partner when only eighteen to twentyfour. For young women that is. Young men should not even consider getting into a relationship such as this untill they are at least twenty eight. Young men mature slower than young women. There are exceptions to this basic rule, there are always exceptions to rules, but by far the majority of young men are not ready for a marriage and children untill at least twenty eight.

Answer 7

i guess they not thinkin