is it bad to love someone and now that its finished feel like you cant NEVER love again!!!!!how can I gorget about the love of my life????michevas sister eph
2006-06-23 03:40:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, don't try to forget!!!! Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!
If you live to forget, then you forget to live!!! Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened!
Point is: Just learn from your mistakes and move on! Life is too short & too good to waste on someone who is not worth it! Remeber that every minute you spend crying is a minute you could've spent smiling!!!
God be with you my friend!!!
2006-06-23 03:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I'm going through the exact same thing. My boyfriend and I of three years broke up two months ago, and let me tell you, this is the worst pain by far I have ever dealt with. He was my first love.... Everyone is telling me that time eases the pain, personally, it has gotten worse for me. Every day I wake up thinking about him and go to bed crying about him...thinking about who he is with...and then I dream about him....and wonder what I could have done different to make it work. I'm trying to reach the point where I can focus on all the good times and accept that it didnt' work out and move on with my life. If you don't accept that it's over, you can never move on. And you can never forget someone that you love, no matter what. You just have to find a way to come to peace with the outcome. Family and friends are the key to getting you through...It sucks.
2006-06-23 10:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by sunnyinsyracuse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is true for everyone, but I don't think a person can just have one love of his/ her life. Compatibility comes with different people for different situations and what clicks most is the the person you decide to be together with.
If you have broken up, I suggest forget him and move on. You will certainly find someone else and he may be worth it. Maybe this person was not worth you - place a great deal on importance on YOURSELF and tell yourself it was his bad luck, not yours. Learn to love yourself and evryone will love you.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 10:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by estee06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, But you probally will never forget the love of your life, but you life will move on. I dated this guy in high school and I stupid broke-up with him for someone else, releized soon after that it was the biggest mistake ever. I am now married to the guy I left him for, but theres not a day that goes by that I don't think of my first love. but you need to date other people and you will soon relize that life moves on.
2006-06-23 10:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by crystalcooke@nl.rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you one thing, if it really was love it will return in your life some day so wait for it...but if it has ended for good then it was'nt love at all. It might have merely been overestimation of a crush. Just sit back and see if your love comes back or if your love enters your life. .
2006-06-23 10:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't forget about the love of your life.....You might eventually stop loving them....but you will never forget. It is just impossible. You can't just throw away all those memories that both of you shared together. You just have to open your eyes, love changes people and sometimes blinds them.
2006-06-23 10:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Raul Padilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never do. You can get over it with time, but you will always remember the 1st love of your life.
2006-06-23 10:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it tsles time but you will get over it. Amd if it finshed meaning by a break up. then some times it will take longer to get over someone
2006-06-23 10:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by bumbee14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just, forget!!! force yourself not to think about that person. Tell yourself, "I didn't need him, I'm better off without him, he'll be needing me more than I'll need him! I'm a new better person without him, I'm free and nothings holding me back!"
2006-06-23 14:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time, you will find another love of your life and look back on this one and think what was I thinking.
2006-06-23 10:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋