I've been missing male attention.?

Question

I'm seeing someone but I still like male attention & I'm missing the lack of it here in London. Is this awful? I used to attract loads of men & attention before. What should/could I do??

Thanks for your responses but some mistake me for being greedy. I enjoy male company & conversation. How do I continue to have it while in a relationship??

Answer 1

maybe your lacking the attention from males because you have a boyfriend. Just be yourself and do what you did before when you had the attention you are now seeking again. If it's just friendly attention you are seeking I would talk to the fellows you use to and let them know your still around and would like thier company again on a friendly basis.Hopefully, your boyfriend is the mature type that does't mind you having friends of both genders.Seek and you shall find. good luck to ya!

Answer 2

Baby, if your seeing someone, and you like him, then you need to ask yourself why am
I having these feelings? Maybe London sucks for male attention which you used to get where you lived before. But, since you have a boyfriend then you probably should not be feeling this way, unless of course, he may not be Mr Right for you. I am not a psychologist, I am just trying to make you stop and think.
We all age and I don't want to say we get uglier but I can remember a few years ago I used to look like Robert Redford. Now I look like some old nut. Maybe that is what is happening to you. I am not saying your ugly, maybe just less desirable than you used to be.
Anyway, think about all of this. Maybe you need a facelift?
My intentions are not to hurt you but to make you think about yourself and your present relationship. good luck!!

Answer 3

Go on a 'Girl's Night Out". You may find that if you got to a club, you will get the male attention you seek and then some. But be wary, they may not be as savory as the lot you are accustomed to back home. Maybe you should become accustomed to your surroundings first. Then venture out when you see how the people behave.

Answer 4

You need to be content being yourself. Don't use men to make you feel like you're enough or make you feel secure or cute or whatever. That's just plain wrong. Maybe you should give the men a break, grow up and get to know who you are before dating. You shouldn't date before you're ready to get married anyway - it's just using and begging for heartache.

You're doing a great job of practicing infidelity and unfaithfulness. Women like you teach men not to trust women. Why don't you try being faithful in your mind and heart for real if you're truly "seeing" someone?

Answer 5

I think that you don't really lyke this boy youre seeing because if you did you wouldnt be missing male attention because he would be all you need but gurl I don't think this is awful, I just think you need to be single until you find someone that can fill that gap 4 you!!!!!!

Answer 6

London is a hard city, move to a small town where women are scarse and folks do not keep themselves to themselves so much.

The world of full of men waiting to give you attention.

Answer 7

Drink heavily and hang out late nights in bars. That will pretty much get you "male attention".

And don't be surprised when that person you're seeing dumps you.

Answer 8

Why do you need attention from others if you are seeing someone?
A bit greedy, aren't you?

Answer 9

Hey.. you got my attention didn't ya? lol

Don't worry, things will change for you! For now, just enjoy what you have.

Answer 10

well see you are with someone now... not single. You shouldn't attract gobs of males anymore, you trying to make your boyfriend jealous?