Can you imagine your life without him? Can you not stand the idea of never seeing him again? Can you imagine a future with him? Growing old together? If he loves you he will do anything for you, he'll comfort you when you aren't feeling good, and make you laugh when you're sad. He'll give up anything to be with you.
2006-06-23 03:35:17
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answered by peachmonk 4
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This one has been debated for a few thousand years. Th ecolumnist Ann LAnders once had one about the differnecc between 'love" and "infatuation."
"Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine to closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him." Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he is cheating. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before."
found on www.artofloving.com. LOTS of info there.
2006-06-23 03:37:05
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answered by aboukir200 5
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Everyone experiences love differently. Sure, there are some common feelings (butterflies, high emotions, etc.), but love is something personal to everyone out there. The only way to find out is to spend time with that person. If you are in love, you'll know it.
2006-06-23 05:37:44
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answered by Ipshwitz 5
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You don't know, that's the thing. You never know if you're in love until you're so comsumed by it that you can't literally imagine a good life without the other person.
Or, if you think you're in love with Joaquin Phoenix... that's pretty much true love... he's so sexy.
2006-06-23 07:47:37
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answered by ooh_rah07 4
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dont make any move.let him make the 1st move.then u vil kno if he luvs u.also make sure hes not interested 1ly in yr physical apeearance.ask a close frnd or sum1 who knos him well and can b trusted by u about wat they thnk of him.my best wishes 4 u to get THE BEST GUY.
2006-06-23 03:51:56
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answered by Amy Watson 2
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if they love you they will make a move on you or constantly want to see you or hang out. you will know you love them if you gotem running through your mind and thats all u can think about
2006-06-23 03:34:54
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answered by what rymes with sprite? 3
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glancing eyes from the male interested in you...
pupils dialate........
etc..
or ask him out yourself...no harm
2006-06-23 03:34:48
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answered by okhandsome 1
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if you like the boy and you feel it in your instinct that he likes you too.
2006-06-23 03:32:45
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answered by desolate woman 2
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well, u'll know urself.. it happens automatically... u'll feel it urself.... i'm just 18.. but i can assure u.. just relax - it'll happen..
2006-06-23 03:35:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Fart and see if they stay or go away.
2006-06-23 03:36:29
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answered by My name is MJ Beatch! 3
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