I am going to get married in 2 months time. I want to prepare myself for first night with my new wife. Please tell how should I handle the situation. . Can I talk about both of ours family. Can I talk straight away about sex. Kindly tell me how to start to kick the sex scenerio. I am fond of ladies long hair. I think the moment I will touch my wife's hair in first night I will start erecting. Somebody said that you should ask your wife to touch the pennis, roll it, twist it in first night. If I do it, I will start erecting. How to prolong the erection and actually when my wife will be hot and do the intercourse effectively thereby making my wife happy. Also I have done 3/4 times masterbation a week. Now I 'm worried will my pennis will be straight and stiff till the intercourse time. Or will I get erection the moment I touch my wife's breast or her hair or any of her parts. Also tell me does masterbation done before marriage will affect sex with wife?
2006-06-23 03:04:22 · 16 answers · asked by venkatraman r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Dude don't wait until your wedding night you might have a heart attack go have sex right now with your future wife that way you'll see if this sex thing means a whole lot to her or not. By the rate you're going you'll be divorce within a week if you can't satisfy your wife.
2006-07-05 12:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First Night Preparation
2016-12-12 03:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by tepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, wow. You have way over thought this. Calm down. I'm sure you'll get an erection just fine. Your wife will help a lot. It's not like she's just gonna lay there. She'll be just as eager to explore your body as you are hers. Sex is perfectly natural. Yes, it may feel a bit awkward at first but just do what your body wants to do naturally.
And its not like you have to rape the woman the first chance you get. Talk for a bit. Calm down from the wedding. See where it takes you.
Masterbation before the wedding is a nominally good idea. If you've never had sex with a woman before you'll be able to go longer and heighten her pleasure. Just don't do it too much. YOu don't want to overwork it.
Just be calm. If you are super nervous you may have some trouble. But you'll be fine. And congratulations!
2006-06-23 04:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. The moment you've been waiting for it almost here. If you get an erection before you and your wife are ready to have sex it will be OK. It'll still be there when you are ready to use it. And if you get nervous and you don't have an erection when you are ready to have sex then kiss and touch your wife and gently put her hand on your penis. Her touch will be enough even if she doesn't know exactly how to stroke it. Everything will fall into place. As for the sex itself. Don't be disappointed if it is over quickly. You'll get right back up again and be at it for hours. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-05 03:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although what you wrote is very inappropriate... it is very sweet at the same time that you want to make your future wife so happy.
If it's the first time for both of you just relax. It's nothing to worry about. Plus if she has never had the one eyed snake before she probably doesn't know the difference.
If she doesn't get off during sex. Give her pleasure in different ways. Kiss every part of her body... and get her off by going down on her. It takes a woman longer to climax than a man so you guys should just do it more than once.
If that doesn't work buy her a sex toy.
Way to go tiger! lol
good luck!
2006-06-23 05:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by hullo? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first time with sex, you're likely going to be nervous. No way to avoid it, except to address it. Just be honest with your new wife and let her know how you are feeling. That is the quickest way to end the nerves is to get it off your chest. If this is her first time too, she'll be in the same boat with you. If not, she'll be able to show you what to do.
The main thing is to just let it come naturally. Don't force anything. When you get to the room where you'll share your first night together, talk, kiss, hold hands, look into each others eyes ... it'll come to you ...,
2006-07-03 16:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by hypwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to some of these ppl! I think it's GREAT that ur still a virgin and that ur worried about ur first night!
But like alot of ppl said CALM DOWN and RELAX makng love to ur new wife should be a great exprience and something that just happenns naturally. No need to think about it just go with the flow everything will be alright!
Kiss her neck and move on slowly and take ur tme and don't think about anything just how much u love her and how happy r u that ur together!
Good luck!
2006-07-05 15:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just knowing that you finally married the girl of your dreams and having your first night together is exiting enough. just dont start having conversations about your family or hers. Good luck and just relax. And dont worried masturbation is not going to ruin the day. Actual sex and masturbation is two totally different feelings
2006-07-05 09:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, it's great that you two waited for one another till married, but....... if this is not true, you should be ashamed for coming here asking all these ppl for help to make your first night good sex and how should you do it. if you two love one another and waited for this moment, it will come natural to the both of you, because this is what you want. don't turn it into a question of not knowing what to do and ask for help. just be happy and love one another for this is the begining of your new life.
2006-07-01 02:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by jenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a rediculous question. CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sex is not supposed to be stressful. It is a relaxing practice between you and your spouse. Just let it happen. Odds are your fiance probably has the same question out here. lol.... just dont worry and let it happen. It will.
2006-06-23 03:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋