Some people go thier entire lives and never find a perfect love. So the have no choice but to settle for thier second choice. I looked, and looked. Settled and settled. Till one day, without even looking. I stumbled into a perfect love. A love I would never imagine I could have. I'd always thought it couldn't happen to me. I thought it was impossible. My gf of over a year has shown me a love I could never wish for. She is the girl of my dreams!! The best part is that the feeling is mutual. How many people can honestly say that they are with the girl or guy of thier dreams?
2006-06-23 03:01:47 · 25 answers · asked by Tutty Frutty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, my husband! I believe that God creates someone for each of us.We were blessed to be brought together at an early age. Even though we were young, I had alot of sexual experience(he didn't), but none in true love. That was the real gift that he has given me over these last 12 yrs. The only thing is to learn to listen, trust, and don't take each other for granted. Sure she's going to drive you crazy with somethings, but I'm sure you're doing the same to her. So, love each without fear or judgment(cause) none of us are perfect, just the love between you is! Just remember this and you love will last.
2006-06-23 03:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not many people can say that. However, congrats to you for feeling as you do :) I don't believe in being able to find a perfect love in an imperfect person--it's not thought out, nor is it giving an accurate or fair representation of your partner in terms of the relationship. They just can't live up to a perfect version of themselves. We are all capable of mistakes, even those that involve those we care deeply about. However, I do believe in not settling, rather finding the best person you can for your life, needs, and your soul. There are probably hundreds of people per person worldwide that could fit the bill, but only a few will we be physically attracted to enough to pursue in any way, and only a small number of those will we meet. One or two of those people will we recognize as such, and one will reciprocate all those feelings. That's what love is. My husband and I have that foundation, and as things have changed rapidly in the two years that we've known each other, we have been able to change appropiately to each other and the situations we meet together. Only time can test a relationship and answer if it is true and the best you could ever have. Enjoy the good times, reflect on them when things get hard, and build upon them when you have the resources. That's as close to perfect love as you can get. I'm not cynical or pessimistic, it's just that I realized after falling in love many times without success, now that I know what true love is, I realize it is not perfect. If you can love someone despite that, and they love you despite that, too, than you've got a winner.
2006-06-23 10:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by da chet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Why are some of you guys so bitter about if a "perfect love" exists? OF COURSE IT DOES!! It might not be perfect in society's eyes, but it's perfect to us and that's all that matters. I've found the love of my life also. We've been together for over a year too :o). I think the world of him and he makes me so happy. I couldn't imagine myself with anyone else. I feel as if I'm in a dream everytime we're together cause I can't believe how happy I am when I'm with him.
-Love you bay!
2006-06-23 10:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people come into our lives and quickly go, and others stay a while and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never, EVER, the same again. So the big question, is there a such thing as a perfect love? Well actually there is you just have to seek hard enough and iff you seek hard enough you will find it.
2006-06-23 10:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Josh T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh most definitely. It seems you find that perfect love just as you have convinced yourself it doesn't exist. Most people I've talked to about this had given up on dating and love and their perfect love walked into their life.
Those who say perfect love doesn't exist just haven't found it yet. I was one of those. I believed nothing could be perfect. But then I found my husband. I had been in love before but not in true perfect love. That doesn't mean we're perfect or our relationship is perfect but our love is. And that's whats important.
2006-06-23 10:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen to that brother...
I have been married close to a month to someone I've dated for 4 years over long distance. When a couple is friends first, marraige is like sharing life together as a team. I love her.
2006-06-23 10:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by p3jedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope can't say that I found the perfect girl of my dreams starting to believe that there isn't anyone like that and its all just a figment of my imagination.
2006-06-23 10:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I found the man of my dreams when I was around 17 yrs old. And, it was one of those things, that your mom tells you about. She always said "you'll know it when you see him". And, I did. I only saw a picture of him, and I knew right away that he would be the one for me. Luckily, he ended up knowing some friends of mine, and we met that way. I am proud to say that we have been married for 15 years.
2006-06-23 10:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by sioux m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no lifetime love without compromises, changes, sacrifices and occasional arguments. These things make that love not perfect. But not a bit less beautiful......
2006-06-23 10:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by labia_maiora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get your hopes up bud..... im not so sure anyone has really found their "perfect love" cause who out there has dated and seen every person.... hell, it wouldnt even have to be of the opposite sex, technically.... now, great loves, yeh. thats possible. perfect...... well, nothing is perfect.
now then, a person of ones dreams is different than perfect...... people can find this one without seeing every other person. and, i havent yet....... ive proly not even been around long enough to, so..... yeh.
2006-06-23 10:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋