Is it right for a lady to demand things (money, gifts) from her bf?
2006-06-23 02:37:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anne O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, its a boundary cause yes women loved to be showered with gifts and reminded of how beautiful and special they are constantly, but you shouldnt constantly ask for things and sometimes do something or buy him something special to show how much you admire him.And if he see you buying things for him he knows you think of him and hell want to impress you more. Dont be a golddigger,its not right and if you dont love him for him but what he buys dont waste your time.If your self worth and happiness comes from materialistic things then youll never be happy
2006-06-23 02:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by scarletcutiecajunqueen 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No. It is right for a lady to EXPECT things like love and attention from a man.
But the moment a woman (a true lady wouldn't do this) starts demanding ANYTHING, it ceases to be a relationship and becomes a transaction. Remember, the 'f' in 'bf' stands for 'friend!' Who 'demands' gifts from a friend?!
If a woman ever demands anything from me, my first thought (and probably words) would be, '... and what will I get in return?' I challenge anyone to prove that there is a correct answer to that! My second thought would be, 'Goodbye!'
2006-06-23 03:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not on my standards, no. I don't think that a lady has a right to demand gifts from her bf. A bf should only give you presents if he wants to from his own free will.
2006-06-23 02:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by adozenredroses12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you are the kind of woman who constantly needs money and gift from her bf you should find a bf that has no problem giving it to you. You should never have to "demand" gifts from your bf.
2006-06-23 02:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shay Boogie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Is Wrong For Anyone To Demand Anything.
2006-06-23 02:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can, but its not right...if its not right for a guy to ask, let alone demand, that his lady lose weight then no they don't have a right to be asking for money & gifts...how material.
2006-06-23 02:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy doesn't lavish her with gifts or show affection and shows that he cares for her then I think she should demand or get out of the relationship on the other hand if she is just nagging and just want gifts and just bugging the guy then I say the guy should definitely get out QUICK because the chick is money hungry and a gold digger.
2006-06-23 02:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is usual in Africa. It is an accepted culture. Men don't frown on women 4 dat. Infact some men would say "If u don't ask me, How do I know u are in need?"
Men build houses 4 african women, furnish them, send them abroad on visits or 4 studies, give them business money e.c.t.
You are not a whore as long as u stick 2 1 man.
Depends on ur culture.
2006-06-23 02:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by kinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T KNOW IF IT IS OKAY TO DEMAND GIFTS OR NOT? BUT I DO THINK THAT IF A GUY TRULY CARES HE PROBABLY WOULD GIVE YOU A GIFT FROM TIME TO TIME, AND A LADY SHOULD GIVE HER GUY GIFTS ALSO!
2006-06-23 02:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Melba Toast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I believe if a man care anything about a woman, he will be glad to be a blessing to his woman, love you, pamper you and make you feel like the greatest woman in this world. A real man want his woman to have the best he can give and more.
2006-06-23 02:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Basilchef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋