Have you ever have a broken heart and who would u say caused it, you or your partner, how long did you stay heart broken and how did you get over it. jus wanna know
2006-06-23 02:23:31 · 21 answers · asked by jus wanna know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My heart has been broken many times, until my heart was broken by members of my family, it had only been broken by my so called partner. However, it wasnt heartbreak, i thought it was. It was only when my big bro went to prison did i realise what broken hearted ment. It dosent have to be a wrong that someone has committed to you in order for you to have a broken heart, but someone or something that you care for so much is taken away or distroyed for no good reason. Seeing your beloved ones in a not so nice state is a devistating blow to my heart. dunno about everyone else.
Family is the number one important thing in my life, and i know my heart can be broken by them, but it can also be filled with joy that no-one else will be able to do, thats the curse and blessing of having a loving family.
Do all you can for them. or if they have hurt you, try not to dwell on it too much, but do dwell otherwise you wont heal. Dont listen to people who say "forget it " or "have fun", cause you wont, just morn what ever you have to to get over your pain. Then one day you will realise you can help or you can move on.
gudluck yeh, x.
2006-06-23 04:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by london lady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In any broken relationship, 2 have to be blamed although most of the time, one individual will point finger at the other. Being broken-hearted is not a good feeling. Every time, when you pass by certain places, that both had been before, you will start thinking of the other party.
The feeling:- God knows how to describe it. It is like a sharp arrow piercing through the heart. Pain is not the word to describe it. Because there is no pain, it is just like a hand inside your heart and squeeze it tight.
How long did it last? The day you tell yourself, if you cannot be with him in real life, you can still meet him in your dreams.
2006-06-23 02:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my first love ended our three-year relationship, I was 20 years old and felt worse than I ever had done before. For a few weeks it felt like nothing mattered and I couldn't see how I would ever feel better. I couldn't even stand to watch television because I felt like everyone on there was happier than me (even on Eastenders!). After a few weeks it gets easier and gradually you come to terms with it. Like bereavement it really is true that time is a great healer. Once you meet someone new, you really do move on then and let go of the past. Ironically, my first love has tried to win me back and now I've moved on I don't want him. At the time we'd split I'd have done anything to get him back!
Just remember whatever happens in life is for a reason and some day, somehow, things work out for the best!
Good luck x
2006-06-23 03:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced this many times in the same relationship. It is easy to blame the other person but if you can be honest to yourself you will see that sometime whatever caused them to break your heart could possibly have been your fault to begin with. I have been with the same guy for since 1968. I have felt betrayed, felt like my spirit has been broken, felt heartbreak but it wasn't always bad. You do get over it or you might as well not live. That's my thoughts on this subject!!
2006-06-23 02:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by grannypamrox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have had broken hearts. A broken heart is a result of being let down emotionally.
The best way to recover is to gain and learn new tools in coping with being let down. Once you learn those tools, you are so much more empowered in dealing with let downs.
The best way, since most people don't naturally posess these skills is to seek a therapists or a counselor's knowledge about how to deal with disappointments (which include broken hearts) and to learn new ways of taking care of ourselves. You can't avoid a broken heart but you can learn some valuable ways of dealing with it.
2006-06-23 02:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if anyone says they have never had a broken heart they are lying. Everybody
there heart broken at some stage it's a fact of life... Time dose heal all wounds though so you can get on with life. At least you are still here
2006-06-23 02:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by sin27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is key. there is NOTHING like time. it took me 6 months more or less to get over the one and only time that I let a guy break my little heart. lol. After him I spent 7 "rebound" guys trying to get over him - well not really get over HIM in particular but just trying to prove the idea that women can date like men do - w/o feelings. And I have succeded - I broke them and figured out that I CAN have a boyfriend wo/ feelings. BUT it was SOOO unsatisfying and boring that I couldnt stand each one of them longer than a month. so let me tell you this - it is worth it to get your heart broken.in the end it is always worth it. so dont cry because its over Smile because it hapenned. But it will take a few months before you can really smile. Time is the only thing that helps, not rebounds, friends or etc. Hope that helps =)
2006-06-24 18:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was heartbroken. I fell in love with this guy. I loved him for about two years, but I did'nt get to see him much. He came In where I worked one day and ask me out. I was on the top of the world that day. He's a nice guy, and were still friends now, but we had sex on that first date, and I guess that's all he wanted. That was about a year and a half ago and I'm still not over it.
2006-06-23 02:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart break is one of life's biggest roads to cross. Most of the time if you are real with yourself, you find it to be alot on your self. Yet if they are a cheater, they are not worth the heart ache in the first place. After all you are better than that. Fu**Em
2006-06-23 02:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by woman in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I decided to get up off my butt and my life isn't over.We broke-up because we wanted different things,I broke-up with him that's why it was hard.It was after 5 yrs.I felt miserable because I thought he was the one and all this time he had been pretending.He got my name tattoed but I've changed a lot,I used to not think it was cool,but now I feel maybe that means I was wrong,maybe he is the one,and maybe brag about it only cuz I have low self confidence now,I use to not care but I wanted to feel good.Maybe he was the one,who knows, but now he understands me and I understand what he wants in return,I wish I knew that before but I have someone new and not everyone is as nice as himand he taught me about that.so??
2006-06-23 02:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋