my younger sister is a monster, she's always hit me but i can't hit her coz my mom will angry , what can i do

Answer 1

Many families have a bad kid that the parents refuse to correct. The best you can do is hope she outgrows it or for your parents to actually start being parents and correcting her behavior.

Answer 2

I know how is that, I also have a sister with a bad temper and I had a lot of troubles with her till one day that she desapeared without sending news. Fortunately she showed up, and everything was ok, but that made me realize that to have a sister is a gift, and that I was wasting that gift with foolish fights. It may be difficult to see it right now, but it really doesn't matter who is right or wrong, be mature as you are, and don't fight back. She will realize herself how stupid she is acting. She must love you, enjoy her company cause a sister is a person that is going to stay by your side forever, no matter what happens, and she will be the only one that won't fear to tell you the truth, even if the truth will make you sad, believe, friends don't have the courage do to that...The fights will never stop...I still fight with my sister, but it is ok, cause she gives me so much more, I could learn a lot with her and now I accept her the way she is. So, that's my advice for you: enjoy your sister, when you get older you will see that those fights are meanless and how precious is her company, don't waste that.

Answer 3

You have to hit her back to make her get a taste of her own medicine. You have to make her understand how you feel when she hits you. Sometimes people need to understand this. Otherwise, she will never stop.

Don't worry about what your mother will do. Parents tend to take sides and favor the younger sister because they expect you as the older sister to be more mature, which makes it so unfair.

So you need to step into this issue and do something about it before it gets out of hand and ruin the relationship between you and your sister.

Answer 4

Good question, I was hit last night by someone who I didn`t provoke and who I did nothing wrong to. I had to decide what to do and many would call me a chicken for doing this, but I just walked away. The fight would have been over nothing, and both of us would have gotten hurt, and what really would have been gained from that, nothing. So I think I did the right thing to ignore the violent guy and just walk away. It may be difficult for you to do that as she is your sister. But think about it, two people both being violent to each other just makes a bad problem worse. You just got to hope your sister gets tired of being bad.

Answer 5

Tell her to go "hit your Mom" and watch the **** fly then (and THEN spring it on good ole 'Ma' that the little twirp's doing the exact same **** to you, hon!) Works every time.. She's hittin ya cause she CAN get away w/it.. (I bet she doesn't need much of an excuse to 'pow!' let ya have it, does she?) Mom's probably tired out (I tend to dismiss stuff like this when I'm tired after work..) too.. Give Ma a bit of a break, K? Hey, and could ya take this little tyrant say out somewheres (park.. bike ride) to get along w/her better? It'll make Ma grateful (and guess what, she might take YOUR side after a while... after you act all 'grown up' and all taking the kid round the block!) g'luck... later (melancholia)

Answer 6

Sit her down and explain to her that you have feelings too. She needs to know that when she hits you, you are hurting both physically and emotionally. She needs a subtle way of putting it into perspective for her. If she continues it, see a school councellor. I'm sure the school councellor will be able to convince your mom that this is not normal and maybe offer to find professional help for your sister.

There could be something bothering her and she's taking it out on you.

Answer 7

Every time she swings at you, grab her hand and squeeze. If your mother has a fit, so what? You sister needs to learn that there are consequences for her actions. If you continue to react in this way to her abuse, regardless of what your mother says, she will eventually stop for the sake of her own hand. Frankly, your mother should be teaching your sister that hitting is wrong, but if your mother won't do it, it is up to you to defend yourself.

Answer 8

you sister has a serious angry problem..she needs to go an talk to somone..you need to just block her hits..,maybe try an finds out why d=she is doing it an exlplaoin that its not ok..also talk to your parents bout it an tell them that its not acceptable.. an she needds to seek help..most important stay calm when tellin them an act mature so they will then listen an take you seriously

Answer 9

Hit her when your mom isn't around,lol. No, just find out what bugs her the most and do it constantly. Or, there's always the "I'm Not Touching You" deal.

Answer 10

Block the hits and go tell your mom.