my gf is 21 & am 25 have been together for 3 years, one year left to finish her studies, not yet married but living together, do uthink we are ready to start a family,
2006-06-23 02:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by jonas m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would wait one more year...that way u can enjoy your family
2006-06-23 02:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hard cold reality of the situation with raising kids is that it is 1. very expensive 2. a lot of hard work 3. life changing. Make sure that school is finished, the career has a good start and that you're at least financial stable enough to pay the bills. Lets face it, if we waited until we could afford to have children we'd never have them...but until you'll want to be sure you can afford formula. An infant will get in the way of studies big time and add enormous pressure to your life as you know it now. You'll want to be able to enjoy your children, so hang in and wait another year or two....you're both young enough and have plenty of time.
2006-06-23 02:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a nice a job and ready to be a father. Think hard and carefully. Marriage is a hard decision. You must think if you are ready for handling responsibilities as a good father, raising kids, a good husband, is she the one that you wouldn't leave even if she grew uglier someday. Think twice dude but being a father and having cute kids is a wonderful life.
2006-06-23 02:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish school, get a solid career, and a house. Then ure good to go. Never start a family in an apartmen. Money down the drain. Good luck
2006-06-23 02:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by devin689 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u know the answer to that but theres a lot to take into consideration- r u financially stable? will u be able to give up ur social life? thats just two of the main ones
2006-06-23 02:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's your age? in case you elope the position do you pick to bypass do you need to have a thanks to proceed to exist there? What per chance the outcomes for your relatives? even if you being the female in case you elope and also you eventually get a touch one then he sees yet another lady and lyks her and starts off dishonest on you who're you going to expose to? that is continuously love yet that you need to over come it for my section i have been in a position to conquer love like that.It took me more effective than 3 years even if I did over come at latest i'm plenty happier. Even you'll discover some one else and fall in love with them. yet when you on your on without counting on him can help your self and a infant at the same time as one comes or some thing quantity then that you'll believe of eloping. adult males will maximum cases to locate distinct females who're more effective proper than you so that you and believe me even him you won't be able to insurance his faithfulness.
2016-11-15 04:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you and your girlfriend accomplish your goals and you feel like you are financially stable then you should talk to her about it because you two are still young you never know you might wanna do more before you have a child.
2006-06-23 02:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until she has finished school and you are married, you are both still young and have plenty of time for a family!
2006-06-23 02:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. You and your girlfriend know what is right for you, but you two need to talk about what you want to do.
2006-06-23 02:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit with her and discuss this matter. if she is ready than u can do it but dont push her.
2006-06-23 02:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by skydragonx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋