Beauty is not based on how attractive we are to everybody else, but how attractive we are to ourselves, for one cannot think other people think they are full of beauty unless they know they are beautiful too.
2006-06-23 02:10:36 · 14 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is true to a point because confidence adds to the beauty of the total person. I find that when I meet a new person, initially I may think they are average or even a little plain. Once knowing, the person if they are funny, confident, kind, friendly, etc. I find them much more physically attractive. That goes the other way too. Someone I find very attractive acts like a jerk and I can't help but think how repulsive they are/look.
2006-06-23 02:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite possible that you could weigh 500 pounds, have greasy hair, halitosis maxi mus, green teeth,bad disposition, and still think yourself beautiful. Ask a friend if he or she thinks if you are attractive. Tell them to be honest. A true friend might tell you. "You are fat, you stink and you need to do something about your farting." This will shift your perception into the sphere of "How do others perceive me?" and yes it is important to stand back and look at yourself thru the eyes of someone else, if only for the reason that it can cause you to change yourself in a positive way. i.e. stop eating oreos with your fat burger, clean yourself up, and stop yelling at your mom.
2006-06-23 09:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by big j hollywood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish more people thought that way...but most people go for beauty on the outside since that is the first thing you see...before seeing the true beauty on the inside. I always saw outside beauty as a shell and the inner beauty is what made the person who they were...their core.
2006-06-23 09:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by bluewolf21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I have seen in my life,beauty means nothing in life. Some of the most unattractive people can get the good looking men. I am pretty, but I don't see any guys chasing after me.
2006-06-23 09:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Quiet V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 46 years old, and I suppose to some folks I would just look like a middle aged mother and grandmother, BUT to me...........I FEEL like I look like I always did. To be blunt, HOT.
My husband still thinks I have it going on too. That may be why I feel good about myself. LOLOLOL
2006-06-23 09:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very enlightening thoughts.
2006-06-23 09:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say that all the time, but most people hardly ever/will never act that way.
2006-06-23 09:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a great Quote!
2006-06-23 09:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wise words if only it was like that people are so shallow these days
2006-06-23 09:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by JADE T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I agree..but some pp,l dont understand this. if u dont love yourself, no one else will.
2006-06-23 09:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by rahul s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋