last time i tolds yous of my ex i have 2 children to 2 different fathers but had a long term relationship with both the guy i met over t internet treats them as his own and i now have a beautifull baby daughter to him he comes up every day every night mostly and cares for them but he keeps telling me he wants a girlfriend and 2 settle down but he also acts like were together but he still doesnt want to what do i do now?
we are best friends and are really clse he wont give me the space i need now that i have his child.
2006-06-23 01:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by elizabeth f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you didn't want him, why have a child to him??? Lots of men would fight for their kids and to spend time with them... And you want SPACE??? That sounds very childish...
2006-06-23 01:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first instinct on reading this was to 'steer clear' but for some reason I kept coming back!
I read your profile for more clues , not really much to go on there!
And now all I can come up with is that you need help, I know you have already asked for that here on this forum, but this isnt really the best place to get it from.
I'll give it my very best shot!!
First get on the pill, or better still have the op' to make it more permanent, I dont know where you are from or anything about your religion but you can get this help where ever you are from, that is priority number one.
Priority number two is to sort out these relationships, now they are a problem (your problem), I dont presume to be able to sort those out for you , I wish I could but I'm not even going to attempt it.
I can only hope that you have friends outside these relationships that you can talk to ? How you are going to find "the space" you need ? tell this latest guy to 'Bog off'
do that in whatever way you see fit, then think it all over, get as much advise as you can while you have your 'space'!
I'm sorry I cant help you more, this really isnt the place to be even discussing this problem please consult your friends.
2006-06-29 08:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life if you have a child by him and you still don't know what he wants get rid you sound like you need to go back to school and learn to spell read your question again the grammar is naff, try to improve your life use the computer to educate yourself,
2006-06-30 02:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm .. sounds to me u used him to get ur daughter .. u obviously dont love him and u ought to be thankful he treats ur other children as his own .. think its about time u grew up and make ur mind up wot u want if not for his sake but for the kids.
how they gonna feel gettin all attached then u boot him out of their lives
2006-06-29 08:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by lizzie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need just a little space if he loves you he will understand make sure you tell him it's not him be open and honest it's the only way to have a relationship
2006-06-23 01:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by boredgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to step up and be your man or just Be dad and let you move on
2006-06-23 03:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord woman.... I thought I had problems
2006-06-23 02:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by impossible903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wholly ****! After reading all this I decided I don't have any problems.
2006-06-23 03:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you have a child with this man. talk about him having his cake and eating it too. have you got "mug" printed on your forhead?
2006-06-23 02:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Foxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the question?
2006-06-23 01:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by robleot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋