He had a heart attack before Christmas. He is having money problems...he a great guy but when is enough, enough?
2006-06-23 01:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been patient but he keeps pushing me away...he told me I could leave him....But I told him no...I just get so angry that it seem like I am always asking to do something together and he puts me off
2006-06-23 01:55:32 · update #1
Right now he is going through a tough time it seems like. Maybe he is just stressed out and need to be alone to think about where is like is right now. Just give him some space, but if that don't work than just move on.
2006-06-23 01:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I have the same issue with my guy, except he has a back problem and has been on worker's comp. for a year and a half. Also a great guy, but he seems to have lost all ambition. This whole time he could have gotten his GED or got certified in something. But nothing... except I recently got him to stop drinking with his friends so frequently. He's wonderful with my son, though. Sorry, I don't have a definite answer, but I have the same question. It can get pretty nerve-racking. Hope it helps to know someone has the same problem.
2006-06-23 08:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're asking the wrong question. Do you love the guy? Cause if you REALLY loved him, you'd wait. If you don't, then why are you still around. I would wager that you're attitude towards him is probably not the greatest unless you are putting on a show in front of him and waiting to vent on Yahoo Answers.
2006-06-23 08:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "When is enough, enough"?
I think you need to take a long look at what you want out of a relationship at this point in your life. If you really love this man, then you should want to be there for him no matter what.
If all you want is someone absolutely perfect who will spend all his money on you, then that's a decision you'll have to make.
2006-06-23 08:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Craig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good things come to those who wait. Just be patient things will work out for you.
2006-06-23 08:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs you now more than ever. if you leave him he'll completely fall apart. show him support and watch him treat you like a princess. it'll be worth the wait
2006-06-23 08:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.... It's the best thing to do. I mean we only live once, why waste your time waiting?
2006-06-23 08:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by impossible903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him? if you do stay but If you don't then you did need to move on.
2006-06-23 08:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋