Ladies help me out here? How do i ask her without sounding offensive that I want her to clean her fanny b4 I do the licking. I'm not saying she's dirty, I just like the place clean first. If I decide to do it myself, that one too could be offensive. Help me out here people!
2006-06-23 00:56:09 · 26 answers · asked by Bruno Tataglia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks folks, but it aint possible to shower together becos of the way my current accomodation is. I live in a place where the baths are shared and 'segregated' into male and female. I know it'll be lovely to shower together. So thats the hitch there...
2006-06-23 01:13:05 · update #1
Just ask her - i'm sure if your at the stage where your comfortable enough to lick her - you should be comfortable enough to ask her that! I always wash b4 sex - and always expect my boyf to wash IT before i have my lunch...if you get me....anyway - she won't be offended - if she is - there's a ready, clean shaven replacement waiting here! x
2006-06-23 01:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by WhyWhyWhy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As a courtesy, she should make sure that she's all fresh down there.... I would die of embarrassment if my "hoo-ha" was in the least bit smelly and I won't let a guy do that unless I'm fresh out of the shower..... probably my weird hangup...
Why don't you suggest taking a shower or a bath together and go for it as soon as you're out....
I don't think you are being unreasonable at all.
2006-06-23 01:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either share a bath, like Mr S suggested, or make it plain that you're having a wash first for the same reason... I'd always make sure that bit was clean as a whistle before I expected any guy to go down there for that! ;)
2006-06-23 01:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by SilverSongster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the sensation game with her, take ice cubes and warm water into the bedroom, place an ice cube in your mouth till your tongue is cold then lick her, then get a sponge and dip it in the warm water gently rubbing her with it, the sensation from cot to hot will have her going wild while at the same time you are cleaning her before you get down to business, hope this helps, enjoy!
2006-06-24 05:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u clearly stated that u can't take a shower with her so tell me y everyone is repetively saying"take a shower w/her". NEway just let her know that (in all humility & respect) that you wouldnt feel comfortable eating her out if she did not bathe or take any precautions to clean her clit/vagina. And if she's real down-2-earth like me..she will not have a problem w/ya' r it.
2006-06-23 01:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenixx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest taking a shower or bath together. That way you can do the washing yourself.
2006-06-23 01:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Works both ways... suggest you share a shower first or she gives you a shower show.
2006-06-23 01:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a shower with her, and dont make it too obvious what you are trying to achieve, or you could simply suggest to her nicely to wash, say to her "would you suck me if i hadnt had a wash" and then she could see it from your point of view., if she trusts you, and she knows you know her, she should realise that you are not telling her she is dirty and she will happily go and wash for u
2006-06-23 01:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by glittershelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share a shower or bath, bathe her sensually, caressing her as you go, if you do it right, she will miss the point.
2006-06-23 01:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by mr_shandypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's kind of hard when she is already taken charge of you. when your turn comes how do you ask her to have a wash. you are at the pick and now have to say this unwanted stuff. only thing you can do at this moment is "you take a joystick ride and propose for a splash...."
2006-06-23 01:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by bis_elpaso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋