Men treat me like im either a sex toy, a disease, or worse.. WHY?? Im a human being! I have feelings...Im equal to everyone in this world why treat me so differently? Big women have the same things skinny women do....theres just more to love, but I just want to know why men treat women so badly these days...dont get me wrong some women are the same but men are worse at it.
2006-06-23 00:40:45 · 20 answers · asked by broken_angel_forever85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we arn't used to women eating so much
normally a chick will have food left
that you eat
we arn't used to the chick eating everything
and then wanting some of our food too
2006-06-23 00:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well for one I big women by virture of believe are an aeasy lay becuase well there are big and who wants to get with them. Two being big can also be taken as a person who failed themselves and ate to much so they think you actually could be diseased. But here is the most important thing not all guy or gal's are like this I do apolgize you have been treadted as something other than human but I beleive size shouldn't matter. My wife isn't no skinny chick you see on MTV she is a wonderful wife and mother of 3 i dont even see a size or age in there at all everytime I look at my wife thats all I see and with those few things to just metion is what makes here the prettiest woman in the world
2006-06-23 00:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by millitary007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww... poor girl... you are a victim of a hard fact about this world.... people are always judged at first by their looks.... the world is like that... even girls dont like fat guys... no big deal... only those who come a bit close to you as a friend, and get to know you better, then only there exist some likeness..... or else there is a hatred from all sides...
its not that you have something less than any other girl... its just that people look at you as their sex symbol... if you are not.. you are out....
most men don't like walking beside a big women... they think it will look awkward.... people choose their mate depending upon whether they are presentable to the world or not???? whether they can be showed off to make others jealous or not....???
well have to face it girl... wait for the right guy..... i m sorry....
2006-06-23 00:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a little woman either, but I think that men think that there is something wrong with women if they aren't the "perfect" body size. All men are not like that though, so chin up. You seem to be a person who isn't low on self-confidence, men are jerks, feel good about yourself and it will show.
2006-06-23 00:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by magickcharms2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is incorrect because it includes all men. All of us are not unrealistic nor mean. Kids hear their parents, relatives, peers, and media talk about weight. "She is too heavy." "What a pig." "I need to loose weight." "She let herself go." This is said even though they know nothing about the person. She could be healthy but five or ten pounds more than they think her weight should be. The kid grows up with the same attitude. That could be one valid explanation. My view is to look beyond the veneer of flesh to what is inside. What good is the most beautiful apple if there is a worm inside?
2006-07-06 10:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by maybf22000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause people are so afraid of what they don't know. Media has a lot to play in this too because they make big women look like freaks and ugly. In actually big women are very beautiful.
2006-07-06 04:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, forget about all those stupid men! They don't deserve your tears! They don't even care if you want to know why they treat women so badly! They are so blind they can't see a great person like you! Beauty is not the appearance. Beauty is where your heart is.
2006-06-23 00:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by nonentity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean!!
have you ever had sex with a big women?
do you know what it is like to put your arms around a women and not have your hands touch? I have!
these are very unattractive things not to mention the cellulite the sweating and the Sheree weight. i Like to be able to pick up my women.
some guys like the big girls but most don't.
sorry if this sounds mean and I'm really sorry some men have disrespected you that is wrong.
Your question seemed real i thought you deserved a real answer. be cool
2006-06-23 00:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's why I'm gay. Men are so shallow. Being with another woman is easier because you don't have to live up to a man's unreasonable idea of what a woman should look like.
And to the guys above and below me who insulted this woman:
I hope you die in a fire. A slow burning fire....
2006-06-23 00:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by howthehellshouldiknow 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i actually think that i like big women, when someone is obese than its not very physically attractive but i know some people who have this problem who are really great people. But i think You don't mean really obese just bigger and i am attracted to women like that often because i find they are much nicer and fun to be around.
2006-06-23 02:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by sadnservice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really feel sorry for you...=( it just happens maybe that you met the wrong men for you... personaly, I am NOT like those men that you have been with... maybe you're looking for real nice men at the wrong place and at the wrong time... i wish you could find a real man that treats you well and cares for you as if you're a fragile glass, not a bratty boy... Good luck and God Bless you
2006-06-23 00:47:01 · answer #11 · answered by Squall_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋