i have done stupid mistakes in past. i try to pull a joke on him & when he reacts in a playful manner, then i get sentimental about these issues. he is tired of all this, he says the chemistry which should be there between us is lost. and that i do not know what i am really looking for from the relationship. he wants to call it quits.but i want him to gv me 1 more chance 7 i want to bring back the spark. please help me to do this.
2006-06-23 00:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by Ag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thankyou for your responses, but i would still like to try once, because this relationship means everything to me. i just want to know how i can regain the chemistry which was there between us. How can i make him feel good to be in this relationship.
2006-06-23 04:42:07 · update #1
Well unfortuanatlly it sounds as if you all were two vines growing up a tree now it seems as if you all are on different trees. You shouldn't have to change if your not what he wants in life then you will be happier not staying with him. Becuase it will lead to cheating later on. Sorry this fish got off the hook theres plenty of time to catch plenty more fish in that huge sea
2006-06-23 00:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by millitary007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being honest about all of you feelings not just the good one even your fears, and he will probably do whatever it takes to help,
sometimes having a good friend to be honest with is better than a date or maybe your version of a relationship, communicate your needs.
2006-06-23 00:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by indianhawk69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i would advise u leave him alone this is from experience. His behaviour has got nothing to do with u being childish I am a very childish girl and I dated someone that was way more matured than I was. He always took his time to explain things to me and never for once complained about me being childish. So i think if he really loves u he wont be complaining.
2006-06-23 00:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but he isn't willing to try anymore. And you have to respect him for even tellin you there is nothing left. So I'd go ahead and just let him go. The only thing you are doing is hurting yourself by thinking it can be fixed.Well it's not! Both persons have to want to and well it's only 1 of you. Let him go.
2006-06-23 00:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry, but i don't think in this sort of situation you are going to be able to revive any sort of "spark". can you honestly say the spark was there to begin with? i think you should come to terms with the fact that this may not be your soul mate, and move on. just my opinion. good luck to you!
2006-06-23 00:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by opera_floozy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to let you down easy. Take the hint. Find someone new. If you are meant to be together he will come back to you.
2006-06-23 00:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put ur feelings before him with an open heart and i am sure he will understand u if he really loves u.If he doesn't then its better to call off
2006-06-23 00:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by kool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just let him go, it's like the old adage goes..."If you love something, let it go. If you were meant to have it, it will return to you"
2006-06-23 00:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another bf and you shall see some sparkles there
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2006-06-23 00:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by thinker bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋