am 22 yrs old Indian and was studing in boys school since childhood.I came back to my home, as my parents are no more so I am living with my aunt and uncle.My uncle is usually busy with administrating our business,so he often lives away from home.
I am rich but alone and my aunt (37 years old) has been seducing me for the past 2 months in which she touched me and made me touch her(by seducing me).I couldnot control myself as this was the first time I was with a woman(as I was in boys school),so I did liked her body,now I feel addicted to her.I can't tell this to anyone as this will bring a storm in our family and so will our buisness will be affected.
Moreover I don't know whether its allright in our Jewish culture,she told me that family members can kiss each other,the only restriction being they should not have intercourse,which we didn't.
2006-06-23 00:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
though she immerses herself in a Mikvah, which is a ritual bath to cleanse the body as her husband is not there so she ask me to join her
2006-06-23 00:38:55 · update #1
You are Indian and Jewish both? Perhaps if you explain your family tree a bit more.....
She is kissing you, but you are not having intercourse? How is she seducing you then? Not that I really want to know... This story just sounds too wierd to be true.
2006-06-23 00:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to Jewish law a person may not TOUCH someone from the opposite gender. That means a woman may not shake the hand of a man (even for business) and definitely may not kiss or have sex with a woman unless they are married. The reason why we may not touch others is that it should be a barrier and it shouldn't come to a situation that you are in now.
The law about touching the opposite gender does not apply to:
For a man / woman
1) wife / husband
2) daughter / son
3) mother / father
4) grandmother / grandfather
5) granddaughter / grandson
That means that you may not TOUCH your aunt, cousin, girlfriend or even sister-law. There is even a problem with having a step-parent.
There is another law in Judaism - the concept is called "Yichud". This means that you are not allowed to be alone in the room or house with someone from the opposite gender who is not on the above list. Of course, there are many conditions which may make it okay - for example if others have the keys and can walk in at any moment, or if you are by a window and someone can see in.
It is a very long and complicated issue so I cant really explain it here although it should make the point very clear that according to Judaism you may not even touch or be alone in a locked room with your aunt - no matter if you are living with her or not!
2006-06-27 05:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!, at the age of 22 you are a man, not a boy. She is a woman looking for affection due to the strange circumstances, this is adultery. If your aunt's husband lives somewhere else chances are he is doing something for affection himself (I don't know) so you are in a strange situation to say the least. I would suggest to find a woman more your age and single! This situation can hurt your business but most important your family!
In the Jewish culture adultery is a sin! she is not telling you the truth. I suggest to move to a different family members house while you get your own place and preserve the family you have left, that is most important than a sexual urge. Join a club, like aerobics.... meet a girl and start your own healthy love life....Smile
2006-06-23 00:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by 2u-sister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not alright. You shouldn't kiss family members, other than say...a peck on the cheek. Ick. No it's not allowed in the Jewish culture, it's not allowed in any culture. If you have to threaten her with telling her husband in order to make her stop, so be it. It will be much more detrimental if you wait and the affair is discovered later.
Adultery is adultery, no matter how much money you have.
2006-06-23 00:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...If you really are a 'Bhutia', as your nick suggests, your religion would be Tibetan Buddhism, with an admixture of the pre-Buddhist shamanism known as Bon.
The Bhutias recognize the Dalai Lama as their spiritual leader.
...How then can you, who claim to be an Indian as well, be a Jew ?
Your 'story', which is otherwise totally unrelated to your Question, makes one suspect that the 'Jew' part is just a peg, on which to hang your sick sexual fantasies !
All such Questions with obscene content, or connotations, are not welcome in Yahoo! Answers.
This is NOT a sex-chat room, either !
Someone [not me !] will surely report you for abuse and misuse of this Forum.
2006-06-23 00:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋