I like this 30 yr old man, i think. but he lives in WI and i don't. and i am only 15. but in 3 years it won't matter right?
2006-06-23 00:14:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you should ask yourself what a 30 year old man whats from a 15 year old. You said like - nothing wrong with liking anyone from any age. when your 18 - it is legal for you to be with whom ever you choose that is 18 or older.
Right now the distant is a good thing because it keeps things away from a physical stand point.
You do not have much here to go on but if this man is flirting with you and telling you he loves you and it is based on a sexual bases then you have to understand that this man knows how wrong that is and he is most likely up to no good and by the time you are 18 chances are you will no longer be of interest to him.
30 year old men know how to tell you just what you want to hear. They can make you feel like he really cares but if you think about it hard you will see if he cared then why do something he knows is wrong and against the law and risk putting you through something that will change your life for the worse.
I am not getting a good feeling about this at all and it has very little to do with him being an older guy. I think you should not want this at your age. I think that you also know how wrong it is. I have yet to meet a 15 year old female who was not smart. stay away from this one and start paying attention to older guys once you are 18 ok?
2006-06-23 00:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 19⤊ 0⤋
A 30 year old man has no business showing interest in a 15 year old girl. This has red flags going up all over it. Don't try to pursue this.
2006-06-23 07:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unlikely to be workable. At your stage in life 15 years is far too much difference for a relationship.
I think it is great to "like" him, but this is not a reasonable workable relationship. Find someone your own age - they will have more similar interests, more similar tastes in m,usic and clothing, more similar views on child rearing, etc.
2006-06-23 07:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely wait the 3 years.
2006-06-23 07:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anton Mathew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really really love him, and he love you too, then go for it!!! even 100 years the difference in your age.... just follow your heart.... because if you use only your mind not your heart, you will definetly live w/ mistakes and then you will realize that your not happy w/ and your wrong!!!!!
2006-06-23 07:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jeawelyn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus here. He is twice as old as you!!! Even when youre 18 it wont matter, this guy could be a rapist or something, i suggest you break up and hire a bodyguard.
2006-06-23 08:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip. Rewind the tape and start over. Better yet, put in a new tape.
2006-06-23 07:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG. tink about it, if u like marry him or w/e.....in 20 yrs time u'll b 35, prime of ure life, and he'll b 50!!
2006-06-23 07:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Marz-2kaii8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b...
all depends on u...
u may b the trendsetter or may b following someone
2006-06-23 07:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by an_sush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfect.
2006-06-23 08:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋