My fiance told me she was going out of town for a family reunion and told me I could find a girl for the night. Ladies, is this normal? I know she loves me, maybe she wants me to have some fun? I would really like to find someone just for the night but I am not sure because it feels like cheatting but at the same time it really isnt if she approved it. right? what do you think?
2006-06-23 00:00:20 · 16 answers · asked by hurleyguy182 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never trust in what girls say...... they something else but mean something else... they are one crazy species.....
many conclusions from what you said....
1. she is going around with someone... so she wants you to do the same.
2. she knows you are too desparate... so just to cirb your feeling...
3. she feels that she can't satisfy you... so giving you and oppertunity to satisfy yourself...
4. Testing you cos she is going to make a big decision anytime now...
5. she wants you to have a second opinion as to how good she is at bed...
here you are.... i guess these much are enough...
try to figure out which one is it...
but whatever is it.. follow your heart and don't do it....
2006-06-23 00:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Us women persons have great instinct. in case you pay interest and dont lie to your self the indicators would be there if he's cheating. Does he artwork late lots ? if so perchance each and every so often call him at artwork to work out if he's truly there ? replace right into a sprint detective. leaf with the aid of his wallet, cellular telephone bill, credit card statements. If there is a few thing to locate you ought to locate it there. Dont basically take a seat around letting the years bypass with out understanding. Yeah it is going to likely be truly difficult in case you come across out he's cheating yet could you truly flow yet another 20 yrs no longer understanding ?
2016-10-31 08:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by porterii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say one of two things is going on here:
1) She's testing you. If you go ahead and hook-up with someone for the night she may come back and accuse you of not really loving her.
2) She's planning on hooking-up while out of town and figures that if you do the same you can't get pissed at her.
2006-06-23 00:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nodachi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your fiance right, how long until you get married? Have you thought that maybe she is testing you, to see how faithful you are to her. Maybe she's worried about making the commitment of marriage to you, and wants to see whether you can be trusted. And yes, I think it is cheating. Your cheating yourself really. Have you thought about why you want to be with another women - I know we all lust aftter other people, thats ok, but to actually have sex with another women...maybe your not ready for marriage?
2006-06-23 00:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by swishhoops_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she tell u to find someone for the night because that is what she is going to do? I am married and I would have never, even b4 we got married, told my man to find someone else for the night.
2006-06-23 00:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by cici101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yessss
2006-06-23 00:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a hooker and leave the area code because it isnt cheating if you have sex in a different area code (consented or not) But she probably didn't mean it, ask her to have a threesome so then you both get something out of it.
2006-06-23 00:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rigga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it Boy! she might be testing you to see if you will say No. And to see if you could be attracted to another woman other than her, So don't do it.
2006-06-23 00:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by showgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask for it in writing with a list of rules, so that way she can't bring it up in a fight later.
2006-06-23 00:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your being set up
2006-06-23 00:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋