I'm a nimfo when it comes to sex but my boyfriend doesn't like to that often. I've tried everything to spice things up. How can I get him in the mood?
2006-06-22 23:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Half of sexuality or being in the mood is you yourself feeling sexy or desirable. Obviously you feel sexy enough, but maybe you need to make him feel like he is Brad Pitt, or whoever, you get my drift? But you can't do it too obvious or it's just cheesy, so ease it into conversations with little compliments and let him catch you checking out his rear. Maybe he just needs to get in shape to feel comfortable with his body?
2006-06-22 23:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by nukecat25 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Comunication is so very important. Tell him how you feel, without demands, and without launching a problem solving match. 'This is how I feel about this situation...' will suffice. At least then you will both be armed with the knowledge of what you want from one another. A relationship is about compromise, with comunication you can be aware of one anothers needs and make adjustments accordingly to meet on common ground. Your nymphomania could be sheilding other issues that could be destructive as well to your relationship. Only you know this. It depends on where ur heart is girl. In the gutter, or in ur future. You'll find that no matter how wonderful sex is, it is a representation of love. Long after we indulge our bodies, our minds will always crave the security of the one we love. If we damage that or dirty it with selfish desires and lusts, true love will be corrupted. Love is not something we find or create, it's a gift we are part of and share with one another. Sometimes we have to come to one knee with our heads bent in submission to reieve the true gift love brings. If we don't submit to the basic requirements, the wrath of love will bring us to both knees.
2006-06-23 00:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my girls i want to have sex every time every where but stop there are some limits but i know sometimes she does not want some sex i put up some strategies asking her eventually what can put her in the mood she had tall me special stroke at special places of her body or even verbal excitation one thing that can work for sure for you!! take him by surprise every guy in this world love to be surprised by their girls but happily surprised discretly where he will not be not waiting for it slide your hand in his trousers and take hold of hissex and start masturbation it will definitely put him in the hard mood:)
2006-06-23 00:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lingerie definitely works for most males. Giving him the visual to entice his appetite is something that always works in nature. Also foreplay to physically excite him is a great way to start.
2006-06-22 23:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geeez looks like uve just had bad luck finding a 'genuine' guy. you have the perfect mentality and most guys would agree, sh*t your pretty much a soul mate to most dudes. tell him to shutup and stop being a wuss and 'take off your f*ckin pants boy'
2006-06-22 23:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"In ur darkest hour when u r fed up & blue. just remember this I'll always be there 4 u. I m no angel N cant change ur fate. but I'll do anything 4 u coz ur my m8."
2006-06-22 23:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always contact me. I am always in the mood.
2006-06-22 23:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, how bout using a little self control or do it yourself.
2006-06-22 23:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm lost most guys i know would love that
2006-06-22 23:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess alot of my answer depends on your ages so if you could post your ages.
2006-06-22 23:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋