2006-06-22 23:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by Mountaineer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and it was very difficult. I think I broke my own heart as much as I broke hers. I was with a very beautiful girl whom I had a lot of chemistry with. I was in a committed relationship with her for a couple of years and so it occurred to me that it was time for me to ask for her hand in marriage or call it quits. I wasn't so sure about marrying her, but I loved her deeply so I cut her loose.
It seems to me that as women age the likelihood that they will attract a man that they feel suitable for marriage decreases. I liked being with her a lot, but I didn't want her to waste her pretty years with me when I didn't think I was going to marry her. She meant a lot to me, in fact she still means a lot, but I know that it is better this way.
Maybe if I didn't give a crap about her we'd still be together. Yeah, there are tons of guys out there that keep their girls around coz it's convenient and a steady source of @ss. Of course most of the girls are either clueless or in denial.
2006-06-22 23:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
No! I married the one I committed to be.
But I have been dumped by my ex cos she was not ready to commit
2006-06-23 06:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. Love is only a issue with feelings. To be commited to a guy is another issue. If that guy did not understand that my commitment to other matters are being priorities, it will be best to ditched him before his feeling gets deeper and vice-versa.
2006-06-23 06:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I did it and it haunts me to this day. Having said that if you cant commit to someone then you clearly don't love then enough.
Best to let them go (in a nice way) and hope that they find true happiness with someone else.
2006-06-23 06:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by mrhaff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married because she wanted commitment 6 months later discovered she was clinicically insane she got commitment or i should really say committed to the local funny farm
2006-06-23 06:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by species8472 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly were in love with this person you couldn't cast them away like yesterdays garbage.
You're immaturity speaks for itself. Put yourself in the other persons' shoes. How would you feel it the other person tugged on your heart strings and threw you aside (dumped)?
2006-06-23 06:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have before and it is not such a gr8 feelin' especially if you keep seeing them around. it is therefore very difficult for you to get over him because you keep seein' him. but one of the most common problems is fear of commitment, you are afraid of commitment because you are afraid of the unknown, its like you do not know what will happen in your relationship and how it will develop so therefore you get out of it before things go bad because you're afraid that as time progresses it will be difficult for you to get out of it so you get out of it as quickly as possible. or its simply a matter of you being afraid of being dumped so you beat him to it? maybe? all you should know is that it is a commom fear, you're not alone!
2006-06-23 06:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by DaWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the western world there is a lot of people that can't commit anymore nowadays
i keep struggling with it but am still with my man...
2006-06-23 06:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had. I wasted three years of my life and his. All I ever did was cheat on him. All he ever did was cheat on me. It took me a long time to get over the head games we did to each other. And I don't think he ever got over it.
2006-06-23 08:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea if you cant commit whts the point in a relationship/
2006-06-23 06:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋