2006-06-22 23:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by gun.slinger19 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
apply for joint custody or at least tell her you will be...
you are entitled to see your child
you need to ask yourself why she is being like this, you havent given much information, there is usually a reason behind it, though some women are just selfish cows.,....
2006-06-26 00:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
prepare yourself legally, with advice from a lawer, citizins advice office internet research. Teach yourself the details of rights regarding your girl. What you are entitled to, what you can ask for and what you will not get.
Then ask for a simple informal meeting with your ex. Tell her what you would like, and take in her reasons why not, remember them. If she wont play ball, be cool and ask again for a more formal meeting in a neutral place and state your rights clearly and consisely.
there's no room for social politics now. state your objectives and requisits.
She, and any other reasonable person would be happly to play along when they see you know your rights, done your homework, and mean business.
If not, hit her with the reprocussions and explain them to her.
unfortunatly at this stage, the nature of humanity is to consider nothing but pride and self preservation so both parties will probably enter a cusdoty battle in a fight against each other and forget about the best for the child. needs must.
2006-06-24 11:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jonathan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly to 'rickiehart72' not all women that stop there partners are vile, i am going through court procedings at the moment as my ex wants access even though he didnt want to know the kids for 3 years and when we were together he tried to push me down a flight of stairs while holding our 4 month old son in my arms and 2 months pregnant with our daughter so some women have every right to deny access. now as for your case 1) where you married? 2) is your name on the birth certificate? if your name is on there you should already have parental responsability so therfore she cant and by law shouldnt be allowed to keep you in the dark. if i was you i would go to your nearest citizens advice and they will tell you everything you need to know and also put you in touch with a top solicitor, hope everything turns out good for you as even though i have denied my ex access it isnt something i would normaly agree with just my ex has mental health issues
vicky
2006-06-23 15:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by vicky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex-Partner is not allowing you to see your daughter then you can apply through the courts to allow you access to form a relationship with your daughter. They will grant this always unless you are a threat to the child.
Women who don't allow fathers access to their children without good reason are vile creatures and don't deserve to be mothers.
If my husband and I ever separated, I would never be obstructive in allowing him access to our children, whatever the circumstances of our breakup.
Go and get some legal advice.
2006-06-23 00:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter was born after November 2003 you get automatic parental responsibility or rights. If she was born before, you will have to apply through the courts. Mediation will be offered, try & discuss it then. Take it slowly & be patient. If she has no reason to deny access you have no worries.
2006-06-26 04:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife did something very bad before we divorced. She thinks that our son will ask me questions and ruin all her lies to him. She has made a lot of stories up to everyone about why we parted, of course we fought, i was fighting for love and to keep us together, but she has used this, blowing it out of all preportion, to keep me away from the son who loved me. They have disappeared and now i get hate mail from her new boyfriends, ones that threaten my life. I have writen a book for my son and it has the potential to make a great deal of money. The book was something i promised him before we parted, i never break promises, especially to my son. I cannot find him and she seems to have poisoned even him, where i am concerned. Ironicaly, i still love her, my friends say i should just forget them, nobody really understands. Tony feeling hollow.
2006-06-24 14:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is get 30 mins free legal advice to see if you have parental responsibily
Any more info please email and I will send you some further files that I have
Regards
Fathers 4 Justice South West
2006-06-22 23:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mark R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask your ex partner if she'd like to go to mediation and if she declines have a solictior draft a letter which almost summons her to mediation, that usually gets their attention!! It worked with my ex.
2006-06-22 23:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing the mother a letter or something explaining your feelings cant guarantee anything but worth a try. good luck.
2006-06-22 23:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by tracieisland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from?
2006-06-22 23:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋