I've been with my girlfriend for two years. We have a great time together, travelled around the world, hardly fight, amazing sex life, she gets along great with my parents, she like my wife.
Three weeks ago she said she needed space. When I tried to talk her out of it. She broke up with me. I was devastated. I lost it. Started calling her like crazy. It only made things worse. So then I decided to leave her alone. Not even two days passed and she called me crying, that she loved me, missed me, all that. But she still said she needed space and that we couldn't be together.
In the past six months, I've gone through alot. I kinda ignored her. She says she was unhappy with me, felt she couldn't do what she wanted and needs to find out what she wants. But she loves me.
I really love this girl. I don't understand whats going on. I'm willing to work it out with her. To be honest, I don't want to **** anyone else in meantime or move on. So I'm stuck and completely confused.
2006-06-22 22:40:30 · 18 answers · asked by G N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she's told you clearly her reasoning! you need to just be patient and wait. when she speaks to you, be willing to do what makes her happy. eventually, things will be fine. whatever you do, don't push her else she'll run away. she needs time and you need to give it to her. you also need to stop running after her/chasing her, but do need to let her know you care.
bottom line = be her friend
2006-06-22 22:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....uve got a problem on ur hands well she obviously needed space (us girls need space to do girly things sometimes) and then she broke up with u? It sounds like ur girl needs some time to work things out for herself. if u really love her, leave her be until she rings u and invites u out somewhere to have a chat and soon enough she will come round. shes probably going through a stage of her life when she confused what she wants. she probably wants u and loves u enough but feels its time for a change just leave it and give it time it will all work out eventually. hope this helps hun
2006-06-22 22:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Horse Rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sad to say...............but "" I need space "" means she is not in love with you anymore. It does not matter how wonderful it all was before........ sadly, some people change......... it happened... there is nothing at all you can do about it......... trying to get her back , will just make her run away more......... This is the part of life, that feels like a knife in your back....... and it's not your fault, nothing you can do, except wait for the pain to go away......... and please do not be in denial.......it won't help u. I need space = she does not want to be with you in a serious way anymore. And I am sorry for your pain .
2006-06-22 22:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may want to break things off but she is trying not to hurt you, which is inevitable if she is. Or she may just need some space to figure things out. Sounds like she is confused.
You may just need to humble yourself and tell her that you love her and want her to be happy whether she is with you or someone else and would not be angry with her if she chose to be with someone else. Try to understand that people just change and grow in different ways but if she wants to be with you, she will end up with you. Even if we love someone who doesn't want to be with us, we still want them to be happy with or without us.
You need some closure or direction and you might have to let her go and let her know that it is up to her in order to get that.
If she moves on, you will have to do the same. Keep in mind that you don't want someone to be with you because they think they have to but because they want to. You are a person who deserves love and this may or may not be the person you are meant to be with.
Life choices can be painful, but if you approach it humbly, you will be happy in the end.
Good luck.
2006-06-22 22:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect each others feelings. If U really love her respect her feeling, Be nice to her, Support her or help her in solving her problems.She loves u and get back to u but it'll take some more time.
2006-06-22 22:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by La_Vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you're smothering her and you need to back of some. this girl doesn't want to be with you ALL of the time. She needs to go out with her friends and be alone some, too, just like you! Oh, and you're a loser cause you cheating on your wife. STOP! Maybe that's what wrong, stupid!
2006-06-22 22:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by FIREHAZARD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need space" means one of four things...
1. I am seeing someone else
2. you are too clingy
3. you are a control freak
4.I don't think you are good for me.
In case it's either #2, 3, or 4, just give her time to sort things out.
But my gut feeling is that she is seeing someone else.
2006-06-22 22:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means it's over. Ive heard this before. Give her all the space she wants...and if its meant to be, she will come back.
2006-06-22 22:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by D J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is typo as the person is omitting the proper punctuation between the words, The words remain intact as to their message and meaning, So, it means nothing.
2016-03-27 01:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she may still love you but there is somthing that is disturbing her badly and that thing ia from you or it is because of you .why dont you put your nose in the ground and try to find out?
2006-06-22 22:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by shes killing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋