What is the key to self confident???

Question

I am not self confident.I don't trust myself.I am always negative about myself.Though i was the third topper in class, I feel that I am very bad at studies.I feel that I can't achieve my ambition.Help me!!!

I am SORRY!! I can't choose which one is the best bcoz everyone's answer helped me a lotttt. Let d voters decide it....
Thanx a lot.

Answer 1

You must love yourself. Everyday when you get up, think of one thing you love about yourself and tell yourself. If you find something negative, think of a way to fix it, and do it. I am sure you are a wonderful person, you just need to remember that.

Answer 2

remving all sense of inferiority complex is the right way to start. when u look at yourself in the mirror, say to yourself I am the best and I am happpy even if i have any shortcomings whatso ever.

never compare ur self with anyone and say ur good or bad. Becase theres no one who u can compare urself with other than you. God has created u uniquely and theres no one else like you anywhere else in this world so doesnt that make you unique?

fell good about yourself take a solo trip around the garden often adrmire the birds, the flowers, the clouds, the blue sky and then tell your self that like these beautiful creations, nature has created me also and like all these I radiate beauty, charm and grace.

Give good compliments to others very often. This shows that you are concenred about them and also that you have a great sense of beauty. This will add to your personality.

Learn to appriciate the few moments of pleasure that are there in life. these are going to be memories tommoriw. enjoy every momnet where u can share love show concern and feel for something deeply.

Finally thank god and tell him that you are thankful to him for everything.

All the best and take care

Answer 3

Enjoy all your successes, no mather how small they look to be; Put on the paper what you feel about your failures, and come back next day and read what you have right there, and think like what you have right on paper is the somebody else story, not yours. You will experience the filling that the problem is not so big then you thing.
Try to leave near to nice people who appreciate you, confirming your qualities and forget your defects and complexes.
Fight hard for everything do you want to succeed, and remember that winners never quit and quitters never win!

Answer 4

Self confidence can not built in few days.... But definatly u can be a very self confident person ...what u need is patience and contiuous effort from ur end. First thing I would sugest is not to sit idle ..engage ur self some activities which u like to do most.Find out the thing u realy like to do.. Have an ambition in life...Plan your daily activities so that u can achieve ur goal..Celebrate ur success however small that may seems to u...
Forgive urselfs...for the mistakes happend in past or present.
Just visualise how big are the world ......how many cities ...how many towns how many villages ....how many peoples... camparing this u and me are very ..very ..small . so do our mistakes....
So please try to see things lightly ...

Before u fell into sleep please try to visualise and feel like u are very confident person.. try to see each of ur confident action with as much clarity as possible, be its ur style of talking .or the way u do things.. make this is an habit...

Hope it will help u bit

Best wishes

Answer 5

First trust yourself think of the psitives u have do not think about your negatives
Don't say u cannot achieve keep the following words
Even the Word Impossibel says I'm Possible
In this world anything can be achieves .. you are 3 rd topper in your class ... be think of your postives u can Achieve it
First keep faith in you u can do it

Answer 6

The first thing you need to do is know yourself, what you are and what you are not. And than work on what you want to be and confidence is nothing, it would just come your way.
Do you think kids would have the confidence to walk on there own, they jsut look at others and try it themselves,,, its the same her when I can do some thing.....Why cannot you do the same.... take like this way and confidence would come your way with out you going behind it.
Chethan
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Answer 7

the key to self confident lies beneath ur skin
and u should find as soon as possible
u want be self confident
just
remember these 2 word
SELF BELIEVE
if u have it then my dear friend u can shut the mouth of any body and at any time
u can shut the mouth of whole world
u will have to trust ur self
life is a roler coster ride there are ups and downs in this ride but if u stay calm and cool u can very well ride on this ride and conquer the zenith postion
and if just leave it to god then u r lost somwhere in ur own world
if failure comes ur way then just except dont try to cover it just learn frm ur past experience
but just delete them frm ur memoery after u learn thm
and here are some qoutes that i wanna share with u
"MANZIL UNHI KO MILTI HAI,JINKE SAPNO MEIN JAAN HOTI HAI
PANKH SE KUCH NAHI HOTA,HOSLEIN SE UDAAAN HOTI HAI"

SO BELIEVE IN UR SELF AND GET TO KNW UR ABILTIES AND POWER
JUST DO THINGS THAT U R CAPABLE
DONT TRY TO COMPETE WITH OTHERS JUST
WATCH OUT WAT U R ????



LUK einstein did'nt became famous in 1 day

Answer 8

Honestly, I learned a long time ago that you can change that. Put positive things around you and surround yourself with positive people. Say to yourself "I am good at <......>" 5 times a day. You will believe it after a while. It really does help.

Answer 9

Self confident is able to see the strength and weakness in yourself.

Concentrate more on the strength. Accepting the weakness and knowing (learning) how to deal with it.

Answer 10

Think that yourself have power, intelligent, smart. Believe in yourself. Feel proud of whatever you are doing. if doesnt make up mind for anything leave it.