2006-06-22 21:27:08 · 11 answers · asked by sad gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
have you ever tell you dad how you felt about his attitude?
have your mum ever spoke to you of how she felt about the situation?
you know,i advise that you'd better see a counselor .Pour our your feelings to the counselor.He/she will be able to help you cope with the current situation you' re facing.
I know your family must have meant a lot to you.And I suppose you're a growing up child.I agree the current situation affects your life and you other family members but please remember one thing do not let those things to pollute your mind or affect your studies.
Most importantly get a professional help.
cheer up ok.I wish you all the best.
2006-06-22 21:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch that must have hurt on your mum's side. Being the child you must be confused and lost as well.
Stay with your mum, let her know that you are there for her. There could be some problems in their relationship, your mum might want to share with you if you ask her. But most importantly, support and comfort her.
It is cool to find out what is happening from your dad as well. Since you see such drama happening in front of you, it's an opportunity for you to approach him. I hope that he isn't the abusive kind. But just talk to him in a sincere caring manner. Love never fails. Once he look back at his family, he'll think twice about his actions
2006-06-23 04:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from? Thailand? or muslim? Then just accept it. I know that sounds cruel, but thats just the way it is. Does your mom seem to care? Is she hurt ? Men are dogs sorry to say. Even your father is if this is what he is doing. Its better to know the truth and cry and just get over it then to think about it too much. I doubt that you can change his actions nor will you be able to change many bad people's actions in your life. Do you think that your mom is a good person and beautiful? Then you believe that and forget the rest.
2006-06-23 04:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by jenna-a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously love and care for your mum very much.
How does your mum react to the flirting? Does she look unhappy or distressed?
Some men do behanve this way, maybe out of unconscious habit.
Maybe your dad needs to be made aware of the effect is having on you (and you mum).
Can you talk with him about it?
Perhaps your words can bring about a change in his behaviour?
regards
Peter
2006-06-23 04:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand the question but it sounds like they may be swingers... your mom and dad have a open relationship and they can bring other people home if they want. Its something some people do, but you should tell them you dont like it when they act like that in front of you!
2006-06-23 04:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat kinda of relationship r ur parent having? He reali gutsy to do that, and ur mon dont care.
I guess it kinda of complicating.. If there love between a family, this shouldnt happen. U better get someone to talk to ur father, tell him tt u r hurt by his ridiculous action.
2006-06-23 04:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by HappYGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, to me, but then I'm not your mum and despite your best intentions it may not be how she sees it. Just be there to support her.
2006-06-23 11:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. talk to your mom and ask her how she feels. some women are so scared of loneliness, separation and divorce that they live with this kind of treatment from their husbands.
2006-06-23 04:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by pseudo_psycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know if your mom is interested in a 3 sum?
2006-06-23 04:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u drunk what the heck u talking about
2006-06-23 04:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by cathharrynj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋