my boyfriend and i have been going out almost 9 months now and he cause a great deal of drama in my life. we've already swapped the "i love you"s and i know i mean it. but i dont know if we were meant to be so soon in life. I think he has lots more maturing to do, as do i. I know if i break up with him ill probably lose him forever. but the main drama lately. Tuesday he was thinking about breaking up with me (again) because i dont show him that i care and love him enough (so not true) but we worked that out. then on wednesday i went swimming with 2 guy friends and one of their g/fs which is also my best friend. i found out today he was jealous of that. even though he regularly goes out with these 2 girls with no other guys... and then that night i left a cd on his car because i didnt get to go to my church outing with him. and he didnt talk to me for a full 24 hours... even when i tried to call. and he helped plan a group outing w/ my friends to a baseball game and failed to invite me.
2006-06-22 21:21:03 · 4 answers · asked by melovecheese1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said he told me the time of the baseball game, but he didnt. and i would have remembered because lately i have been sensitive to missing out on group things because i just got a job, and none of my friends have jobs and they always plan things when im working. but i could have gone to this had i known the time
2006-06-22 21:21:37 · update #1
the two girls he goes out with are also two close friends of mine... and i know they dont do anything, i just dont think its right for him to get jealous when i hang out with guys and i dont get jealous when he hangs out with girls
2006-06-22 21:22:05 · update #2
and he's not all bad, just the past few days. he's usually really sweet. last week he tryed to make me a candle light dinner even though he had never cooked anything before in his life.
2006-06-22 21:22:26 · update #3
Sometimes a guy would like all your attention. My girlfriend has free will to do as she pleases as long as she remember just how much I love and care about her. The only thing I ask is that she would stay faithful and not play games with me no matter how far away she maybe from me. I understand you because sometimes it is like she dose not include me in her life and hangs out with old friends from school. The last time I called her she had an old guy friend over to her house with no other friends there besides him. I have to admit I was upset with her cause she seems to fall for the sweetness of every guy but crays and asks me to trust her. The only advice I could offer you is to be careful with your heart. Even if those other girls are your friends they might turn around betray you or he might leave you for another. It sounds to me like he dose not value your relationship all that much.
2006-06-22 21:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Less known 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your case is the typical example to show in an article called "why is it good to be single"... quit, and wait for the guy to grow up a little bit, he's way too insecure, and maybe it's because he thinks you're just like him, it sucks!
2006-06-23 04:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy your youth and moments with him. Sounds like he is pllanning on being a control freak when he grows up.
2006-06-23 04:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by MoMoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he needs a time-out.I dunno itz just a guess or he feels that you are not paying him as much attention as b4.Try&work things out tiill u feel that there is no hope only then you break up wif him
2006-06-23 04:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by pop_princess0520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋