this might sound a lil silly,but i would like to know your views on me! heres a lil description, i have been n 3 relationships long term,all of them i had feelings in, a cpl were great guys,1 died,1 got tired of my ****,and im currently with the last 1, but i have never been truly happy! Never! I dont know that i ever will? why would this be? I am a great person i'd like to think,e1 i meet love me to death,even these men have,but i just cant seem to be happy! helppppppppppp
2006-06-22 21:18:20 · 13 answers · asked by dawnita0322 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have seen this happen 2 many a ppl. What i found common in all of them is tat it happens to mostly very good ppl. ppl whom u would have thought "was my wife or husband" kinda.
from these observations i often feel that probably its only the good ppl who can go through all these and tats why only god gives such difficult situation.
So the positive side is God loves u and knows u r good enuf to go thru all these things than many others who would have terribly messed up the things.
The sad part is its for a suffering u have been selected jus because ur good.
I feel sad at this irony
2006-06-22 21:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by friend 3 · 11⤊ 4⤋
My view on you is simple. First of all this does not sound silly. You are not looking in the right places that's all it is. Maybe try something new. I am also never happy but I have never given up and neither should you. You will know its the right one when you don't get tired of them and cant get enough. Hope that happens soon for you. Good luck in the future and if this answer was not good sorry.
2006-06-22 22:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by curious cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I over-think things. I have every reason in the world to be truly happy - great job, amazing family, good friends, a new relationship with someone who's absolutely wonderful...All this to say that sometimes, if I think hard enough, I start to feel like I'm unhappy.
So I realized.
Happiness isn;t really a defined thing - it's abstract. I think you need to feel satisfied in your life and with the people around you.
It's not the people that make you happy, it's a decision that you make to be satisfied. If that makes sense.
2006-06-22 21:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by sayhello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't sound silly at all, almost everyone goes through the same stuff. I think you should try to figure out why you were not happy in your past relationships and keep that in your mind in the future. Try not to rush into future relationships, but learn from the past and do not give up, you will be happy. As you would say, "LIFE IS FULL OF CHOICES,DECIDE WISELY,BECAUSE ONE CAN ALTER YOUR LIFE FOREVER"
2006-06-22 21:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by jinxedcradle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to want to be happy is not enough. You have to do something for it. What are the things you like doing, tell your partner and do them. Some people work to much and don't have time to appreciate the little things in life, others are just bored, because they don't know what to do, so everything gets boring.
You have it in your own hands!
2006-06-22 21:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by comedia2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi , first i wanna start in saying that u r a cute gurl from the pic , second thing if u wanna to love a guy dont love him for his looking bcoz when he's go'n to be old he's not going to still handsom !! right ?? and dont choose him so ugly , so u can't look at him even , choose some1 that his idea's match with yours , a person that can know what u feel and im sure that you are goin' to be happy and i hope that , byee
2006-06-22 21:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by king666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your question, you say "I'm a great person, I'd like to think".
I think that perhaps you are not as happy with yourself as you are fooling yourself to believe. If you've never been truely happy, you should be looking inside yourself for what would make you happy, not trying to find someone else to do it. You've heard it said a million times, "We can't love anyone else until we truely love ourselves." Look inside, take stock, and face whatever issues you have with yourself. Happiness lies in loving who you are first, and with others, later.
2006-06-23 03:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by shellb7088 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep looking for something better. It is hard not to do this. Don't give up your search and don't ever settle for less. You don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. Just remember how cool you are as you alone.
2006-06-22 21:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe no one can make you happy you have to be happy with yourself. i've been married 10 yrs it has its ups and downs we have 3 kids its all alot of work especially the marriage. sometimes i think it would be easier without my hubby around but i would miss him and i love him. i call him my 4th child but he can always make me laugh when i need it.
2006-06-22 21:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Chantell L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I think we're all a little fickle. Don't worry about it. People that have really good relationships are just passive and can take a lot of sh*t, like me.
2006-06-22 21:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Boom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋