Any remedies out there for lonliness and some jealousy that might stem from it? Its not so much lonely as in, cant find anyone, thats not the problem. The problem is being unable to find anyone that I connect to in such a way that I feel like the relationship even means anything.
I've only met one such person, and while the person was interested for awhile and now, is with someone else. How can I stop the fact that I cannot stop thinking about this person and the fact they are with someone else drives me nearly insane.
Its starting to consume me because I know I will not meet anyone quite like this. So what to do?
2006-06-22 21:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by Vejita00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to take the next step, which is the hardest, that is accept it, in it's entirety...unfortunately that means allowing yourself to feel that emotional pain and self-control is key. The process isn't an easy one, but a doable one, and sometimes all we have the strength for are moments at a time, and courage strengthens them into hours, and then days...but we heal. Friends are a great support system to help you cope, and keep busy, and sometimes just getting away for awhile is also helpful. I found what helped me the most through a similar situation, was getting back into what I enjoyed doing that I had forgotten all about, which was pertaining to the arts, and I got involved with helping the less fortunate people in my community. It took time, but as each day passed I regained hope, and strength with the help and kindness of what were once strangers, but now good friends. A healthy diet, and rest is also very important because sometimes we forget to take good care of ourselves in stressful circumstances, which rob us from being able to focus properly, therefore make sure your daily routine starts with a healthy meal and ends with a good night rest. Beleive it or not it does make a difference rejuvenating us almost, such a simple task to make an impact on our mind and body who figure? A check up, with your doctor is very helpful, let him/or her know what you're going through. Hope this is helpful, wishing you strength towards your steps to moving on forward. Good Luck!
2006-06-22 21:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that happened to me...ok there was this guy wesley man was he hott!! anyways he had a girlfriend already, but I really really liked him any way well a year passed I still really liked him and I thought I had no chance but he broke up with her and we are now bf and gf!! so sometimes it justs pays to be patient. And find other activities so you dont think about him 24-7. This was a true story!! good luck! God bless
2006-06-23 04:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by miss ingie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's self-pity. Nothing wrong with it. Just human nature. You feel sorry for yourself because you don't have this person. Like a child who doesn't a paticular toy. It will ware off. How soon? Depends on you. The more you free your mind and think less of your heart you should be ok.
2006-06-23 04:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Yves L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't let this one person ruin your life now. I'm so sure that there are plenty of other women out there who shares the same things as you do, just that you don't know it yet. Whoever is the next lucky person to meet you give them a chance before you throw them away and get to know who they are.
2006-06-23 04:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aahh welcome to the human condition
2006-06-23 04:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by The fuzzybunny 69in 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋