i feel very alone.how can i overcome my loneliness?????

Answer 1

Find you a woman! Or get a pet!!

Answer 2

Shawn,are you sure an adventurous person like you is lonely?Its a spritual thing.Find some time to meditate.Close your eyes and think of all the people in the world and what would you do if you knew everyone?Then you would be asking a different question.The people you already know may think you are being anti-social because you are waiting/searching for someone else.You may not be able to see the forrest for the trees in other words.We all have times that we feel alone.If and when you see someone you would like to meet wqalk up to them and say my name Shawn .Most people on this planet are friendly and will return the greeting.Don't expect people to be able to read your mind.And always remember God is always there as you understand God.Peace out.

Answer 3

First pat yourself on the back for noticing you have this problem, instead of ignoring it. Secondly, I suggest finding ways to occupy your time while alone since a friend, club, etc wouldn't always be there for you anyway. Examples would be like a puzzle, a model airplane, or book. Lastly, then research on finding groups you'd like to chat with, a local volunteer area you might be interested in, etc. I believe all these steps will help you as a whole.

Answer 4

what helps me is keeping busy. Take a class in the evening at the local community College, you meet people that way, and could even make new friends! I am taking American sign language (it's actually my major) to practice and for school units, and I met three women that I hope I stay in touch with, very nice people.

Also, you could try hobbies, if you share that in common with them, you could make new friends that way, maybe even meet your next significant other!

Truth is; You gotta be comfortable in your own skin, before you can offer someone anything. If you feel good about yourself and what you have to offer ( like being an interesting person, for what you know, for your good traits and character) you will draw nice, positive people into your life.

HAVE FUN!!!!!!

Answer 5

First of all entertain yourself e.g do things that you like most such as singing, reading novels or even watching television.
Find time to interact with people i.e in a club or even go to church at a time when you are very low because God will take awy your depression if you asked him to.
don't allow situations to make you feel lonely. get involved in activities like community development projects visiting childrens home and taking a walk to your friends place
find yourself a girlfriend who is Godly and strengthen your reletionship with the peolpe around you.
Also check on your character maybe there are things you do that irritates your friends making them to leave you.

Answer 6

Well I feel lonely alot too but I used to go to my moms or dads or other family memebers and visit them and just to tell you some info being alone alot means a sign of DEPRESSION....Well iI hope you overcome you loneliness:::

Answer 7

Develop reading habbit,listen to music,analyse the problems of the under previledged ones,try to understand the nature,develop bird watching,a good hobby,try to help anyone in need,start dreaming about great things.

Answer 8

I was once told to : Get a plant and keep it alive for 1 year. If you can do that Get a pet and keep that alive for a year. And after that if both are still alive and well then you are ready for a relationship.

Answer 9

Get into public places that have large gatherings of people (mall, stadium, park, events, etc.). It's impossible to feel lonely when there are so many people around you.

Answer 10

Get some people in your life and some direction. Volunteer somewhere or get involved with a group.

Answer 11

Join some local groups that may be interesting to you. Find some one online...