my boyfriend and i have been going out almost 9 months now and he cause a great deal of drama in my life. we've already swapped the "i love you"s and i know i mean it. but i dont know if we were meant to be so soon in life. I think he has lots more maturing to do, as do i. I know if i break up with him ill probably lose him forever. but the main drama lately. Tuesday he was thinking about breaking up with me (again) because i dont show him that i care and love him enough (so not true) but we worked that out. then on wednesday i went swimming with 2 guy friends and one of their g/fs which is also my best friend. i found out today he was jealous of that. even though he regularly goes out with these 2 girls with no other guys... and then that night i left a cd on his car because i didnt get to go to my church outing with him. and he didnt talk to me for a full 24 hours... even when i tried to call. and he helped plan a group outing w/ my friends to a baseball game and failed to invite me.
2006-06-22 20:44:35 · 4 answers · asked by melovecheese1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said he told me the time of the baseball game, but he didnt. and i would have remembered because lately i have been sensitive to missing out on group things because i just got a job, and none of my friends have jobs and they always plan things when im working. but i could have gone to this had i known the time
2006-06-22 20:45:51 · update #1
the two girls he goes out with are also two close friends of mine... and i know they dont do anything, i just dont think its right for him to get jealous when i hang out with guys and i dont get jealous when he hangs out with girls
2006-06-22 20:55:53 · update #2
and he's not all bad, just the past few days. he's usually really sweet. last week he tryed to make me a candle light dinner even though he had never cooked anything before in his life.
2006-06-22 20:57:03 · update #3
Focus on your job and other affairs in your life. You are to valueable to play his games. It is better to tell him now than to waste both of your time. He is not right for you. Get out before you guys start talking marriage and junk
2006-06-22 20:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by charity2882 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all how old are you?? that could make a big difference, and if he isgoing out with two other girls and your not even there who knows whats going on? If i were you i would dump him (better now then when your married and u find that hes cheating on you)
Good luck,
Inga
2006-06-23 03:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by miss ingie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the jerk
all he cares about is himself
you are going to get stressed which leads to getting fat
just break up with the bastard
2006-06-23 03:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop tripping and like u said mature a little bit.
2006-06-23 03:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋