I have known this girl for 3yrs now. for the first 2yrs we were only simple "Hi-Hello" friends as I was already with a girl. The 3rd year, when I had problems with my ex, the girl wa always here to listen to me and soothe my wounds.
After a few weeks, i fell deeply in love with her but her main problem is that she's 2yrs older than me. I have personally no problems with that but she's reluctant of forgetting about this age issue.
2006-06-22 20:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by kreolkavi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what is the issue? religion or age? two years is nothing, hopefully she will realize it soon. To help her realize it you might wanna try distancing yourself from her for a few days, without being hurtful or impolite, just pretend to be busy or something, just to make her realize how much she needs you.
People might say, make her jealous, but that is a two edged blade, because she might think you're being immature, so just try to distance yourself a little, be aloof for just a while, see if she reacts.
2006-06-22 20:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by rykkardo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if two people r truly in love with each other the age gap or the religion difference would never matter to them... yes they might feel worried bcoz parents usually dont consent to such a relationship but still, when it comes to them they wont even consider it...
try to explain 2 ur girl that since both of u love each other, these things shouldnt really come in between ur relationship... but if she still goes on being reluctant its better u forget her n move on... look, it can b that she's not really in love with u... thats y she's so confused n reluctant.. u will have to sort things out with her very clearly...
n as far as the religion goes, yes it will b tough convincing the family bout ur relationship n in the end, u might also have to take stern steps to b with each other going against yr family... but one thing i dont understand is that two people who love each other deeply, how can they even consider religion... love doesnt see age gaps or religions.. its just pure understanding n companionship between two human beings, two individuals...
2006-06-23 04:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by kanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are now. If you're 14 and she 16, or you're 16 and she 18, that might be a big problem because she'd be an adult and you'd still be a child. If you're 20 and she's 22, that should be no problem. However, religious differences can be a big problem--if it's Christian and Buddhist, problem; if it's Baptist and Catholic, big problem; if it's baptist and methodist, no problem.
2006-06-23 03:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Pandak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant move on dear
2006-06-23 03:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by trekmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋