Ek Ladki hai jo mere hi school mein hai mujh se 2 saal choti hai. mai use pasand karta hoon. itne dino se main uske ghar ke chakkar bhi kat raha hoon. uske saamne se bhi bahut bar gujarta hoon. i m sure she knows that mai uske peeche hoon.maine bahut baar use notice bhi kiya jisse mujhe laga ki voh mujhe hi dhekh rahi ho par i think love mein aisa lagta hi hai ya yeh bhi ho sakta he ke voh dekh rahi ho par negatively.usne meri aajtak shikayat bhi nahi ki(no reaction yaar this is so frustrating) maine kai baar usse kehna chaha par saamne jaate hi bolti band ho gayi.Par problem yeh bhi hai ki voh kabhi akeli nahi milti. kya main usse tab bol doon jab voh apni classmate ke saath ho (not in school) . ya aur koi accha mauke ka intazaar karoon. mujhe uske parents ka ya school ka ya mere parents ka darr nahi lagta , par uske saamne aate hi.....aur please yeh bhi advice karo ki apni is maamle mein himmat kaise bhadaoon.please help me yaar. ill be very much thankfull to you.
2006-06-22 20:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by ☼ Magnus ☼ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look all this u have already done, its ok... now what should u do is what i'll tell u.. when u like a girl, whether she's in ur school or anywhere... u just dont start following her or anything.... in that way u're not building a good image of urself.. so stop roaming around her house n trying to seek her... thats absolutely wrong... if i was in her place, i would have taken that quite negatively...
now lets start... u like her so what u should do is somehow bcome friends with her n spend time with her... try to befriend any of her friends n thru her u can approach ur crush.. but just dont go out n say, 'i love u' the first time.. give her some time n u also take some time... get to knw each other.. n then when u've become good friends tell her bout ur feelings.. i think this would b the most sensible way...
but one thing i'm not sure is that, when she has already noticed u roaming bout her house n if she has taken that too negatively, whether she'd like to b ur friend or not... in that case, if she objects, tell her that u're sorry to behave in an unruly manner n that u'd truly like to b her friend..
dont hurry things up yaar, u guys have a lot of time to decide...
2006-06-22 20:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by kanu 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Dekho, tum sabse pehele uske dost se baat karo jo uske saath hoti hai. Use apni feelings bataao. Phir usse poocho ki kya meri madad karegi. Agar woh haan bolti hai to use kaho ki ek bar akele mein meri usse mulakat karwa de. Aur agar woh yeh sab arrange kar deti hai to tum shant man se us ladki ko decide ki hui jagah par milo. Badi sharafat se uske saath pesh ana aur usse apni baat kehena. Usse kehena shaayad tumhen bura laga ho lekin yeh sach hai ki main tumse pyaar karta hoon. Agar tumhen galat lagta ho to jo chahe saza do par main khush hoon ki tumse baat kar raha hoon. Bas ab use kuch dinon ka waqt de do jawaab dene ke liye. aur woh tumse milne aaye iskeliye use thanx zaroor bolna. All the best man.
2006-06-22 20:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the first thing you need is that,you make yourself honest and daring.
now i start in hindi.
look tu ab to sabki fikra anhi karta, to soch kya raha hai just go and tell her kyonki pyar mein deri acchhi nahi hoti to soch nahi to ek kam kar tu ek letter likh use uske haath me dede. aur uske saath uski classmate ho to just tell her ek minute we need excuse, agar woh ladki ke dil me thodi si bhi tereliye jagah ho to she will send her friend outside from both of you,then gave her letter and tell her to answer by very deep thinking.
yaar main to itna hi kar sakta hoon, par you have to do do something, himmat kar yaar pyar mein himmat nahi karege to ladki ko lagega you are coward, darpuk, so be boy and tell her that you love her.
what ever happened in your story mail me at pravin_na_ir@yahoo.co.in
2006-06-22 20:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by BOND_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..see tu ye kar sakta hai ki uskee class mein se koi boy ya girl ko aapna friend baana le phir dire-dire uske baare mein pocchta rhae.
Ya phir purana formula apna that is use pen mangne jaa, ya book mangne jaa,ya phir uske ghar chalye jaaya kar kuch lene ke liye
2006-06-22 20:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by harsh_mkg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i understand what you said and if you like that girl then go up to her and just start a conversation like hi how are you doing or whats your name and if she is in your class then you could probally help her if she needs help in the class and don't jump to a relationship first become friends and get to know eachother then make your next move and by the way i am paki............. good luck buddy :>)
2006-06-22 20:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jaake bol de...use pata hona chahiye tumhari feelings ka.....gud luck
2006-06-22 20:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck, indians.
2006-06-22 20:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋