I am in love with two guys, i broke up with the first one because i felt like i was gettin in the way of his career. and now im in love with the guy im dating now but i still can't get over my last one. the first one sends me all kinds of e-mails. i feel so bad because the first one gave up his career because we wasn't together no more. but i just don't want to get up and leave the guy im with now because i love him too. im so confused i need a second opinion on this.
2006-06-22 19:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by downflchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you need to do is figure out the one you truly love the most; and go for it
2006-06-22 20:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, and be mindfull of theres..Just choose 1 and not both, Because in the long run you would probly lose em both.Life is full of tough decisions and nobody is better qualified to make them than yurself. You can try writing a Pro's and Con's list for each one, add up the positives and subtract the negatives, see who comes out on top, and hope its the one your heart was leaning towards in the first place.
2006-06-23 03:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by bradford99336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This requires alot of soul searching on your part. If you're happy where you are, then why go backwards? Move forward and move on. If the ex quit his job to be with you, that's crazy. You left him cuz of his job, that's crazy too. Stick with the new guy and don't make decisions for you men anymore! If you're in the way, he'll let you know, til then keep his dinner hot and ready when he gets home!
2006-06-23 03:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by JLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell number one you've found someone new. He'll just go back to his career. Ignore the emails and ask that he not send anymore to you. Break it off clean and easy with no regrets.
2006-06-23 03:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to decide whom u truly love.. i dont think anybody can b in love with two people at one time... try to figure out who loves u more truly.. is it yr ex-bf or the one whom u're dating now.. but pls do whatever ur heart says.. dont have any guilt feelings or anything as such... just b with the one whom u simply love... only then will u b happy urself...
2006-06-23 04:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by kanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a mess dear ........Shouldnt play with hearts bcos its hell for the guys who are in real love ....I did what your first guy did only to feel the pain and bieng treated like a good freind later ..
think about life on a serious note ...or dont feel bad ,Whats done cannot be undone as is said in Macbeth.
2006-06-23 03:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by trekmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my idea you are not lover and if you were you wont left the 1st one you just want to be busy and that's all
hope you think good and select the best way for your life
2006-06-23 03:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by mhd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on when u know to love two leave one and choose another u can solve this tooooooooooooooooo
2006-06-23 03:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by vinay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the one you are now.
2006-06-23 03:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be monkey jumping here to there and here to there. what do you want in life love or lust, chose love, if you want to be happy.
or else you will regret for the rest of your life
2006-06-23 03:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋