Get a bunch of people together for lunch after the service - preferably an odd number (including her) so you don't get that Noah's Ark type of effect, obviously they should be people known well to both of you - and ask if she'd care to join you.
2006-06-22 19:57:14
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answered by songkaila 4
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lol well look man , if i was u , i would think about it really really hard because , its obvious u don't want your heart broken so if i was u i would either go strait up to her and be like" your a very beautiful woman , and i would very much like to get to know u better" if she gives u the cold shoulder , then shes cruel and that's not the kind of woman u would want to be with anyways ......OR if that's too up close and personal for you , you could just hand her a letter(filled with everything from your heart, and lets not forget with your number in it) and if she doesn't respond then I'm sorry my friend i don't know what else you could do ........i would just leave her alone , there are so many other women out there , why waste your time with one
2006-06-22 20:20:39
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answered by Mike 4
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the matter is you are too hetitant.
You gotta get over it and be a lil brave.
I got a small idea for you. But it will takes a lot of time and your patience too.
You send a small package of candies She might like and dont forget to enclose a small word such as " I" or " You" etc...
and She can finally arrange those words and make a sentence like:
You are so beautiful... Will you spare a lil time for going out with me?
Anyway...dont be scared cos ladies do not like shy guys
2006-06-22 19:59:52
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answered by vietnameseguy1985 1
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The best thing to do is ask God if that is the right person for you, if you don't get a strong NEGATIVE feeling, then I would say just ask her. If that is too hard then maybe invite her to a church function and get to know her a little more. Have Faith and it will be okay.
2006-06-22 19:58:28
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answered by spazzy_cat84 1
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Sounds more like a scary obsession.
Dont let her know about the stalking,just ask her out in church
2006-06-22 20:27:16
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answered by salforddude 5
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How would you know if she likes you if you're not even doing something. Gather all your courage and approach her in a gentlemanly manner... you have nothing to lose. Take the risk rather than live in regret for the rest of your life.
2006-06-22 20:01:22
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answered by kulangot 1
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sweetie dont be scared. the worst she will say is no...hopefully your not suicidel...maybe go out with a group of friends first...give her time to get to know you well...then go ahead and say " hey...i was thinking maybe you would like to go out for some coffie or pizza some time" take it slow...if God wants it to happen...it will happen...good luck to you hon!!!
2006-06-22 20:00:58
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answered by Jesika G 2
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k first, stop driving by her house...
then, after church, smile at her, walk over, and ask her if she has any plans for brunch.
2006-06-22 20:14:34
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answered by gone 3
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finally a normal question very manly of you to take such a big step.
2006-06-22 19:58:39
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answered by miss clueless bout Life 2
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oh, for crying out loud! get a grip. be a man! ask her out
2006-06-22 19:57:20
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answered by oldmanriver1942 2
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