v both were in love from last four years,we both were not ready to go against our parents wish,so he married to a girl of his parents wish.he is not happy with her,he still loves me a lot.but i made a mistake i was upset so once one of my friend took me for a drive to fresh up my mood,but my boyfriend saw us n he got angry with me.but he was just a friend of mine,i tried to explain him but he dint understood.i dont wont my boyfriend back in my life coz he is married,i just wont that he forgives me,n trust me that i was always his only his,n i love him a lot a lot.he is not even ready to hear wht i wont to say,i tried lot but its of no use.please tell me what should i do,will he ever understand tht i m not wrong,will he ever forgive me,plese tell me ,i really need your guidence,please reply me as soon as possible,thank you very much.
2006-06-22 19:37:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my...how complicated indeed. Love story like in the books, but I guess yours is reality. Stop and think for a moment here...what is your intention? The only person in this triangle relationship who really seems to be in a mess is you.
Do you really deserve to feel this way? What did you do wrong? The answer is nothing....this whole situation is not your fault....and now you add to your misery, the need to explain your every move to someone who hasn't really done everything he could to be with you...Oh, believe me if he really wanted you ...no matter which culture...he wouldn't have just married the girl his parents wished for him to marry. Even in India nowadays ( I heard) young people go against their parents wish and marry who they want to marry. Wake up and face reality. You don't owe him anything...no justifications...nothing! You lost him when he married that woman...and he lost you....now don't lose yourself, too. Take care and start loving yourself for a change.
2006-06-22 19:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you have a mutual friend, so write your "love" a letter explaining everything, including how much you love him, and get the friend to give it to him. Its sad that you two are now apart because of someone elses opinions.
2006-06-23 02:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on sweetie. You may or may not have done anything wrong. But don't burden others with your self-doubt. Find your own healing and happiness.
2006-06-23 02:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out of Dodge as fast as you can,,the guys a loser and you are too if tou don't find someone that can love you>
2006-06-23 02:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by uwantfacts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always have love in your heart. but he is married now so he has moved on. like you should do also, he may or may or may not forgive you, but you have to go on with your life
2006-06-23 02:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by diamond40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you talk to him maybe you can ask him, but maybe you need to just let things rest for a little while.
2006-06-23 02:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you so much then he wouldn't have jumped to conclusions. Move on.
2006-06-23 02:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you concern yourself? He's taken. Do not put energy into this as it's not worth it.
2006-06-23 02:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋