is it bad to....?

Question

ok - so i want to go out wit my ex that i broke up wit 5 months ago to go out wit a guy that dumped me a week ago and ive always had strong feelings for my ex - what do i do???

Answer 1

Perhaps it's your grammer, I'm a little confused...

You want your ex from 5 months ago to date a guy that dumped you a week ago? Are you trying to hook them up?

Or do you want to get back together with your ex from 5 months ago?

If you're both single, I don't see a problem unless he's just not that into you, or just not into the guy that just dumped you.

*scratching her head throughtfully*

Answer 2

You are a piece of work, aren't you. You used the ex until you found someone you thought was better. You'll be lucky if ex will take you back. How can he trust you? Strong feeling or not...try to talk to him as a friend first and see where it goes. I wouldn't give you a second chance.

Answer 3

firstly its a bad situation to be in... really there is nothing u can do except tell him u were wrong to break up with him and that uve always still had feelings for himand see if he takes u back. then again if u tell hi that and he knows uve been dumped he will think he is the rebound guy so there is no easy way to do it. just let him know u have feelings for him but dont put pressure on him and go with the flow, just be there for him until u think its time.

Answer 4

Yes it is bad. What if the shoe was on the other foot? Would you go out with your ex who broke up with you to see another person? You already dissed him and now you want him back? Do you think it is right to hurt others in your persuit of happiness only to turn around and expect them to come back to you with open arms? You need to spend some time alone in deep reflection of your hurtful past actions. Think about it.