say i'm watching a movie on my bed with a girl in front of me, what kind of things can i do to make her...

Question

her "feel good" (not in some horny slutty way) but to get her, like i said, "feeling good". where should i touch, should i kiss/ lick...etc.


thanks

Answer 1

I know this might sound a little wierd, but I usually start by laying down a bit and relaxing myself, it makes her more comfortable, then slowly and gently rubbing the back of her neck, just below her hairline. After that she usually will be relaxed and feeling good, so I move closer and make her feel more intimate and comfortable with my touch. When you get beside her, or very close, take close note of her facial expression, trust your instincts from there and you should be fine.

Answer 2

Everybody loves getting a back rub. Gently massage the muscles between her neck and her shoulders. Slide both hands doen either side of her neck, and roll your thumbs into the back of that long muscle (the trapezius, if you want to be anatomically correct). Don't pinch the fronts too much, just keep your fingers pressed against her to give your thumbs some resistance. Move up and down the muscle from neck to shoulder, then move down her back.

You should be able to feel her shoulder blades by this point; press with your thumbs till you feel the space between her shoulder blades and her spine. Most people get tense in that spot (my wife has ALWAYS got a knot there), and if you find it she will be VERY PLEASED. Just don't rub too hard -- if she's really sore there, you can cause a lot of pain and that's not what you want.

Once you've started, though, listen to her -- she'll almost certainly start giving you directions ("a little closer to my head, now in toward the spine -- oh yes, that's IT"). And that's an important step, because it means she's actively involved in how you are touching her. It's physically intimate (even if you're only touching her shoulders), it's giving her pleasure, and it's something unselfish you can do to bring you closer together.

Once you've loosened her shoulders, you can massage the small of her back, or switch to her feet; this is especially good if she stands at her job all day; the first time I kissed the woman I married, she had spent the day waiting tables in college and I started the evening by rubbing her feet. (We've been married long enough that giving her back rubs is officially part of foreplay for us. In fact, not long ago I pointed out that back rubs for her are exactly like sex for me in at least one crucial way -- just because you had some last night doesn't mean you aren't ready for more tonight... :-)

Answer 3

I agree .. give her a massage. Start with her feet and slowly make your way up. I garuntee that by the time you get to her knees she'll let you know if she wants you to go any higher ;)

Answer 4

Give her a massage

Answer 5

Suck on her neck close to the ears, its a killer for me.

Answer 6

if you keep on thinking you are lost. just grab her.

Answer 7

a very sensual massage will do!!!