ok so me and my boyfriend had sex. and i was supposed to have my period on the 16 or the eighteenth. so we were getting worried i might be pregnant. and hen we had sex again and when he took th condom of there was blood on it. and also i kinda want to get pregnant but my boyfriend doesnt. should i just ask him to get me pregnant and he can get lost if he wants? stupid question but i really really want a baby.
2006-06-22 19:07:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sounds like you are not old enough to even be thinking of having a baby, and secondly, go see your dr.
2006-06-22 19:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by farside76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so much harder than it looks.. the single parenthood. You want the baby to have every advantage in life and be able to provide a nice life right?
After you get into a place where this is possible with great health insurance, stable job and emotional support from family & friend.. then dive right in.
I left my ex husband when my son was very small. Going to school and work while trying to be sure he had enough attention was pretty rough. I mean you do it, and all without sleep.. but it isn't easy.
2006-06-23 02:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well if you were worried you might have been pregnant an EPT could have helped or going to your doctor could have been useful if you really want a baby and your b/f doesn't instead of having one with him and telling him to get lost just to be raising a baby alone find someone who would like to have a baby with you and raise it. i am not blatantly saying dump your b/f but it is an avenue you could look into just make sure you do the right thing (i.e. don't go cheating on him just to have a baby) or maybe he wants one but isn't ready yet if you stick with him he may change his mind with time.
2006-06-23 02:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by ermac_666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, wanting to have a baby does not mean that you are ready for it. As ridiculous as it may sound, it is always better to get married, get to know your couple as a husband and then...later on have kids. Build up patience first. I waited 6 years after I got married to have a baby because babies are not toys or barbe dalls! they are humans and they need mature people to train them in life. You never know, your current boyfriend might not be the one. Wait.
2006-06-23 11:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could be pregnant i would get a test asap trust me i know i have 3 kids and just lost one in a miscarriage.and i have a friend that's a single mom and she hates life right know she says it vary vary vary hard to raise kid by her self so think vary hard on what you want for you and your baby.
2006-06-23 02:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya dont wanna get pregnet behind his back u wanna talk wit him tell him how u feel and make sure thats what u want it a big life changin and ya dont want to break up ur relationship if u cant handdle it when its time
2006-06-30 00:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by baby_4th_unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure to want a baby then just have a baby and dump him
2006-06-24 01:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by mysr28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should just run away.very fast. Oh and don't worry, pregnancy and sex aren't usually associated together. wow.
2006-06-23 02:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by MB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but if he dis agrees & u give birth ,will ur boyfriend marry u or will he take responsibility of the baby
2006-06-23 02:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by akshay_cena20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had you period while he was sleeping with you. no because you used protection. just wait to have kids please i have one in me right now and i am already having second thoughts(19 years old, just got out of high school now in my 2nd semester of college)
2006-06-23 08:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by joe_love_trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋