any girls out there feel like they fall really hard really fast for some guys? it seems like the minute i feel somewhat interested in someone, i fall really hard and i feel hopeless for like a week and then i'm totally over him. does ANYBODY go through this? i feel like i have loved and lost like a million times, but i've really only had one really serious relationship - with a guy who was TOTALLY opposite from me. HELP!!!
2006-06-22 19:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by DFA79 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah the thing is, i'm totally happy with myself. i think i'm great and i think any guy would be f***in lucky to have me...so it's not a self esteem issue at all....is that weird?!?
2006-06-22 19:07:03 · update #1
Yes & no...mostly yes...but now that I'm older I know how to handle pain...it's not so painful anymore...sometimes it's better to go through the growing pains...you'll learn from it & get stronger.Also,while the good times last-it's worth it...the pain is only temporary...just try to think of the good memories-it's hard sometimes but the end of a relationship isn't the end of the world.On the contrary,it's the beginning of a new relationship..........good luck...
BTW,I'm not a female behind this mean mug...I just wanted to give ya 2 cents from a dudes perspective........
2006-06-22 19:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by str8sik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not love, it's wanting to be in love... the reason you stop feeling that way is because you realize you don't really like the person. Try to stop being in love, and work on yourself. Once you are happy with you, you will find the right person. Good luck.
2006-06-23 02:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I have been accused of being an ice queen or a mean ***, it is difficult to get close to me but once he is in I am not going nowhere,I just recently got out of a long term friends with benefits type of relationdhip that survived my marriage and divorce, and his girlfriends, my girlfriends and boyfriends
2006-06-23 15:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive done it, it's an infatuation you love the thought of him form his laugh to his obscene behavior take it slow get a grip it will all work out I promise^_^
2006-06-23 02:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by pinkeypeekaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one piece of advice... control your emotions, don't fall too fast coz it may hurt you a lot more than you think.. or you may easily get bored and might hurt the one you love .. :)
2006-06-23 02:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by marlianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you don't see if you fall really hard fast for yourself,i didn't think so.see if you did you would probably had hold fast on them.
2006-06-23 02:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by tigerisexxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit... I fall too fast.
2006-06-23 02:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by WTF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*yes* it's all or nothing with me
I love you Or I hate you
it one or the other
2006-06-23 02:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM NOT A GIRL BUT I SEEM TO HAVE THAT PROBLEM AND I JUST CANT HELP IT.
2006-06-23 02:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋