How could my sister forget about the lesbian she has a crush on and How could I tell her gently to forget about the lesbian the Lesbian's name is "Justine"
2006-06-22 18:08:16 · 14 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Justine is her bestfriend and I think It's wrong for my sister to have a crush on her because Justine's older sister is my friend?!
2006-06-22 18:18:25 · update #1
...in order 4 u to win ur sister back u must must know the WEAKNESS of Justine...and work on it (psycologically) & in the mean time u must portray the FEMININE of a woman to ATTRACT a MAN...in another word..how sweet it is to fall in love with a man...to have a family and a child....do not provoke her openly....and u must DISTANCE them slowly...and in return u & ur family must sacrefices...never give a ROOM 4 Justine to b close with ur sister..when ever there is a GAP..u & ur family MUST...always b there...so that ur sister will not be thinking of her....what she need now is the family love/care...do not introduce her to the opposite sex ( of ur choice)...until she is READY.....
2006-06-22 18:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by manekoran 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its hard to say what will help...
I think - and I know this won't be what you'll want to hear - but I honestly think you can't make someone else...even someone close, forget something...no-one can make another person forget.
Does your sister still feel strongly about Justine?
Are you concerned about Justine herself - or more concerned about your own views on homosexual relationships?
If the second is the case...I think...you can be honest with her and let her know what you think of it - but at the same time...you can't stop her...
But if you have real concerns about her well-being with Justine or feel she is too young - then bring these concerns up...ultimately, though, it's not your responsibility...and just in case you think of it - slander won't work...I mean, you could attack Justine's credibility, but all you'll do is lose your sister's trust...
2006-06-23 01:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bert from Oz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your sister a lesbian, too? Would you feel differently if she had a crush on a boy? Is this chic an ****** or something? Why are you butting into your sister's love life?
2006-06-23 01:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by 0000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but there is really nothing at all u can really do about it. if thats what ur sister wants then nothing u tell her is going to change her mind. if ur afraid that u will loose your friend then she is really not your friend because how your sister feels for her has nothing to do with u. tell them how u feel and let it go from there...good luck. note that if u love your sister then u will respect what she wants, just let it run it's course.
2006-06-23 01:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in a nice way. tell her that it isnt good for her. talk about the bad side, the effect on her, and guess she would understand.
2006-06-23 01:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by dare_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are somethings that your sister will have to figure out for herself,while you care about your sister,you can not run her life for her.
2006-06-23 01:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her lesbian rocks!
2006-06-23 01:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by ..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her justine has a disease
2006-06-23 01:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a mess
2006-06-23 01:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know about these type things...
2006-06-23 01:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋