What does a guy want from me when he don't date me out but calls me up for all sorts of advices? He is actually my trekking club leader. Asking me questions like how to handle his friends, his club's plans for the coming weekend and camera he should buy.
He is lucky that I bother to entertain him at all. Well, I do have a crush on him. But this is ridiculous since we can never be more than just friends due to the very wide age gap (20 years). I guess I need to find some way to nicely discourage him from expecting me to be his nanny. Any suggestions?
2006-06-22 18:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by Aurora 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit him down and give him a thorough talking to!
2006-06-22 18:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll he's basically looking for a listening ear!
It is good that you've drawn the line, you know the limits. A 20 year gap is far too ridiculous.
I think it'll be realistic to actually let him know about the gap that you should keep between the interaction. You can call him out for a cup of coffee and talk about it. Tell him that you are rather uncomfortable that he is asking for so much of your opinions. Communicate your points across clearly and he should be kind enough to cut down his calls.
Another thing is that you should keep a distance from him. Drop that crush! He should get the idea soon enough.
2006-06-23 01:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him off straight in the face.
2006-06-29 10:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's aware of your interest for him and is taking advantage of ur niceness.
learn to say 'no'!
2006-06-23 03:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me is he is just using you for what you can do for him.
2006-06-23 01:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he asks for advice just say you don't know. he'll stop asking.
2006-06-23 01:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by gonetotallymad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋