Boyfriend Issues...????!!!!?

Question

see my bf dumped me after being with me for 5 months. Now he calls almost everyday and today he called and told me that he wants to go with me again. What should I do b/c I don't want to make it seem like I need him. I know that there are many other people out there for me and i know that there is someone out there thats better than him, but I still have feelings for him. I just don't want to seem DESPERATE!! what should i do?

if anyone would like to talk if I decide to move on...... just IM me.

Answer 1

Ask him what his intentions are for you future? Find out how you stand? Do you love Him? If so, is he good for you and marriage? Does he have a good job to support you and children later on?
I am a caring older person than you, I am sure. JR

Answer 2

Take your time.Let him call for a few days and dont respond.Then when you do decide to pick up the phone, tell him your busy and will call him back later.Then dont.Then when he calls another day, talk to him.Tell him he hurt you before and u dont really need to do that to yourself.Give it time, make him chase you, and wait a while before being intimate again.Playing hard to get never hurt anybody and this will give you a chance to see how serious he is about you.How hard will he fight and how persistent is he??How bad does he really want to be with you??Then find out why he left you in the first place!!!

Answer 3

What prevents him from dumping you again? If he needed space, he could have told you that. Why does he think it's okay to just expect you to jump at his whim? Why would you even want to? There is no reason for you to look back. Move forward and find someone who respects you enough to communicate when there are problems in the relationship. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

look there babes. there are really many guys waiting for u. i don't think he is really thinking upon u seriously. y did he then dump u. i think he dumped u for someone else and when this "someone else" left him he is trying to be sorry and want's to mingle with u. when he calls u again tell him frankly that u r not intrested. u have someone else in u'r life. tell him nicely that there are many babes waiting for him too. otherwise if u talk arrogantly he might act some other way. good luck gal!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

ok a few things.... dont be to excited when he calls. Dont go out on a date with him yet, wait a while. ummm i dont know. but anyways if you still do have feelings for him then give it another shot. it wont kill ya. but i wonder if he dumped you because of another girl, but it didnt work out. Why did he dump you ? Good luck

Answer 6

I think u should go with him. I been in this type of situation many times. I've always stalled b-4 i would give her my answer. We've been together 5 times already & i still go with her. I was thinkin bout breakin ^ wit her again. She sprung over me. Just give him another chance.

Answer 7

If you go back to him remember that you are not the desperate one b/c he was the one who broke up with you and now wants you back.

Answer 8

If you want to go out with him... go out with him. If it turns out he wants more than just "hanging with you", look in him in the eye and say:

"Excuse me, I went out with you as a friend and since you left me... we have to start from scratch."

He may have honestly regretted leaving you. Talk to him and see what he says and how he treats you.

Answer 9

just tell him how you feel, but don't be all over him. act happy, but don't be TOO happy. if he's the one who wants to go out with you, it's actually him that looks desperate ... so don't worry about it.

Answer 10

Gurl just forget it cause if he don't want you then he a BLASHER!It's just like that saying (once a cheater always a cheater)He may do it again you never know.