she wasn't susspicious untill one of her friends boyfriend's, told her the old bartender myth, that all bartenders get at least 5 chicks a night, being a bartender, i know this is bullsh*t, the people that i work with know that i haven't cheated and while i'm at home i'm with her, but she doesn't seem to believe that i haven't cheated, i have not cheated in the past and we have even talked about kids and marrage, how can i get her to trust me?
2006-06-22 17:58:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A story from Greek mythology for you. Actually late Greek and early Roman mythology.
A beautiful mortal was loved by all but approached by no one. Her name was Psyche. The goddess of love herself, Aphrodite, was jealous of this mortal and got her SON, Eros (the god of love) to come to her so she could give him orders. His duty was to stalk Psyche until a monster was near, then shoot an arrow at her so the monster would be the first thing she saw and the enfaturation would turn her into a laughing stock.
Dutiful son Eros embarked on this task and lurked in the woods to observe Psyche. She bopped along soon enough like Little Red Riding Hood. Eros prepared an arrow, but as he continued to stare at Psyche, he was so hypnotised by her beauty that he fumbled and pricked HIMSELF with one of his own arrows. He fell in love with her.
He immediately and secretly married Psyche. To hide his immortality, he only saw her in his bedroom at his airborne palace at night. Psyche loved living in the marble palace but was lonely for her sisters. So a wind picked them up and whooshed them for a palatial visit, during the day, when Eros was absent (frolicking with his bow and making mortals fall in love).
The sisters were jealous of the magnificant palace and noticed that Psyche was inconsistent with her answers --she couldn't say his hair color consistently, his appearance was described differently, and she finally broke down and told them she only saw her husband in the dark of night in the bedroom.
the bitchy sisters pounced on this and told Psyche to light a lamp that night to see who he really was and have a dagger should it be necessary to slay him as a monster.
Psyche did so, lighted the lamp, held it over Eros, and was startled by how handsome and sexy he was. Her hand shook and a drop of hot wax landed on Eros's shoulder, waking him up.
He stared at Psyche and said, "Where there is no trust, there can be no love," and flew out the window.
AND THAT'S WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW!
2006-06-22 18:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phuck her is there's no trust in a relationship I got more girls than bartenders , But I guess they apparently pick up intoxicated women and give them free drinks ,almost a low income power trip, But no trust ??Nah you can't marry her get real dude!! The girl Im married too I trust with my life I have enough self esteem I haven't a doubt she would never cheat on me . If I did I've never of married her after I never truly trusted only 1% on the girls i've dated she should feel that way about you
2006-06-22 18:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by newjersey2112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your female friend has themes about jealousy. both of you pick to get this problem in examine in case you're to proceed your relationship. in case you are able to prepare to her that no longer some thing got here about that evening that you had to paintings previous due, then income this, yet precipe it with her problem of jealousy and that she needs to believe you. If she will't get over being jealous ever time that you're faraway from her, you received't have a delightful relationship.
2016-11-15 03:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a die detector test..call around..they have them for the public..expensive tho. Orrr.. just tell her you cant go on this way. If you wanted to be with other women.. you would be single and NOT have to cheat. Let her know by your actions and attitude that its taking a tole on your relationship and that its wrong for you to have to suffer like this when you've done nothing wrong. Let her know that if anyone is destroying the relationship.. its her.
2006-06-22 18:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dog gone boy this is the simplest thing to alibi. Just show her your check stub with the extra hrs on it and she will grovel with apologies. Unless of course your checks hrs are the same as last week. Then boy you got some "splaining to do "
2006-06-22 18:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's in such a big hissy over you working one night, it most likely means she's the one cheating on you.
Why else would she be so sensitive about the issue unless she was doing it herself?
2006-06-22 18:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her gifts for not trusting you?!?!??! WHAT no way, you havent don anything wrong.
You just need to let her know that shes the only one and most important thing to you. If you have co-works that can prove that you went to work and came home after then use that.
2006-06-22 18:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u just have 2 talk 2 her and tell her u love her. give her gifts call her u know te usual stuff. but u HAVE 2 tell her u love her.
2006-06-22 18:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you may love her and all...but, if she can't take you for your word, and she starts trippin...perhaps, you should NOT ignore the signs
2006-06-22 18:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋