why dont women like to go out with nice guys?

Answer 1

that's not true. Most women want to go out with nice guys. you're probably not looking in the right place.

Answer 2

Because it's usually not the "nice guy" part that we don't like.
Most "nice guys" are shy, quiet, maybe bashful or a little too attached to their family or video games.
What women are drawn to is confidence, just like what you're drawn to. Would you date a woman that doesn't really seem interested in you?
Maybe her heart is bursting for your love, but if her outside mannerism is standoffish chances are you're not going to ask her on a second date.
So look at yourself and see if there maybe isn't some way you're projecting your manners that deflects women. Remember, if you sit in the shadows nobody is going to notice you. Get up, talk to people, interact, joke, and take the guy you are on the inside and let people see you!

Answer 3

Most women would prefer going out with a nice guy over a jerk, but women are also attracted to confedence. "Nice" guys often lack confedence, and women are attracted to confednece because they want someone who will protect them. In order to find a girl friend gain some confedence by finding what makes you a valuable person to others. It can be anything from being good at a sport to helping people, and take pride in what you do even if other people don't often do it. Once you find confedence it will be easier to find a woman.

Answer 4

All women say they want a nice guy, but they are always attracted to the ones that will treat them like dirt. I think its the excitement of being with a "bad boy" type and unless they are looking to settle down, nice guys don't have much of a chance.

Answer 5

Girl's do like nice guys. What I don't understand is why Men hang around a girl that bitches about little things all the time and when something huge happens all hell breaks loose. And why they want to be with someone who cheats all the damn time. So why do guys not like any of the nice girls?

Answer 6

i find it funny, because when i was a nice guy i always treated my girls well, respected them, everything, it got me no where.

I started to be somewhat of a dick and they come running, im still nice on occasion, but it seems like girls like to be treated bad. Its the dumbest thing in the world.

Not all girls are like this, but i think its some are. Its just hard to find them.

But i heard when women get older 25-30 they finally tend to notice the nice guys more, which is kind of a disappointment because you have to wait longer.

Answer 7

Most women prefer to go out with nice guys, but they are very hard to find or they are already taken.

Answer 8

I would love to know the answer to this question... women seem to go back to, or stay with men that cheat on them, beat them or treat them like ****... they seem attracted to badboy types that obviously aren't mature enough for a committed relationship, or ready to settle down... Its human naute I guess to look for what one wants, instead of what one needs, but why the hell women want a man that is quite obviously gonna be trouble, and then stay with them when there are so many better options out there... quit frankly is beyond my capacity of logical thought....

Answer 9

Seriously, you are probably dating the wrong type of girls, its my guess. Girls like nice guys if they are looking for a serious relationship. I have two guy friends who are always getting dumped on by whoever they date. They are the sweetest guys I know, but they are so nice that they let girls take advantage of them. Watch for the signs of a user and stay clear!!

Answer 10

Most women do like nice guys,But you guys(assuming) or so hard to find...Or as one said maybe its the type of girls you are asking out???