tuesday afternoon i was out at work and i got that call every mother dreds but i thiught i would never get it especially so soon but i found out that my 5 day old baby girl had stoped breathing.i rused to the hospital in tears than i got another call bout 15 minutes after i got there and they said my grandpa had fell and was in critical condition i have been here at the hospital since tuesday and my papaw should be okay but my daughter well she died tuesday night.we have all the money cuz me and jasons dads are doctors and our moms are lawyers but i need some coping tips plez help plus since im anorexic i have felt suicidal since my daughter died im only 16 i shouldnt have to go thro all this should i wat did i do to deserve this
2006-06-22 17:39:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well. I'm sorry to hear that sweetie. I know this may seem hard now, but trust me, as time progresses, you will get over it. You just have to keep the faith in God, and ask him to guide you in the right direction, and give you the strength to overcome such sorrow. I will pray for you as well, and I will ask God to bless you with that stuff. In the mean time sweetie, keep the faith, and don't ever give up on God, and as many people may have said these sayings, The grass is greener on the other side, and Everything will be alright, because it truly will and is.
2006-06-22 17:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Danyizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 with a baby?? Damn, its probably a good thing that it died. You are not old enough or mature enough to properly care for it. Plus it would have totally screwed up the rest of your life. Be glad that little bastard kid has gone on to a better place. Maybe you won't be screwing around so much now you little nympho! LOLOLOL
2006-06-22 18:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look turn to God he has a plan in all this ok then start going to a youth groupe meet new people to take your mind off of things. And did you know that all babies that pass away go straight to heaven. She is in happy place with no murder no thiefs no liers. I know its hard but be happy for her and go to God then you will see her one day in heaven.
2006-06-29 05:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know your daughter is in heaven and in the best place. She is safe. Think of a really pretty flower and associate it with your daughter.
2006-06-29 12:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jen K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take care of yourself just as your daughter relied on you for care...
God chose your daughter for some reason... and nothing you can do will bring ehr back..
get some HELp... and stand tall...
2006-06-22 17:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by MayberryNR5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm referred to as exceedingly plenty, i do not see it. I already comprehend i'm wise and human beings make relaxing of it often times in a playful way. Like "you need to be in 12 grade... more advantageous." i'm in eighth grade. I particularly be referred to as wise because exceedingly doesn't get you each and each the position. wise can get me one hundred,000,000 funds.
2016-11-15 03:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt do anything sweety. I am a firm beliver that everything happens for a reason. Pray for strength to get through this. I will pray for you!
2006-06-25 17:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by skybludeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you at work if you just had a baby 5 days ago???
Why were you not at hospital with her?
Whay are you having babies at 16?
GROW UP!!!!
2006-06-22 18:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by tleigh517 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must be really hard to deal with you've defantly not done anything to deserve it don't have sex yet ya body's not ready from the pregnancy i'm only your age and i don' think your to young to have kids but defanetly wait a few months
2006-06-22 20:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you poor, poor thing. Cry! Get it out! and pray and ask your father for an antidepressant. Please get objective counseling. You went through something very traumatic. Bless you.
My husband killed himself. I expected it because he was very ill and depressed. But, my boys were only 11 and 13 and now are 15 and 17. They are still in therapy. Please know that everyone loves you and if you do anything drastic if will affect many many people. You are hurting now, please get help.
2006-06-22 17:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋