And no I won't watch it with him, I heard you toldthat to this other girl about her bf! But her question got me thinking.
2006-06-22 17:33:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is the big damn deal? It's just porn, it's not like he's sleeping with some other girl or cheating on you.
2006-06-22 17:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasted alot of years wondering the same thing. I had a three year relationship with a boyfriend a few years ago and he loved porn. I hated everything about it, it made me really self consious when I had sex with him. When we had sex he would do all these crazy things and I felt like he was trying to treat me like a porn star. One day I got so mad at him and all of his **** I took some alot of his tapes and destroyed them..
After being single and actually watching porn myself. It doesnt bother me at all, I actually have learned alot from it. Now when I have sex with someone I have got all kinds of moves that drive men absolutelry crazy.
If he is a total addict then just talk to him and let him know it bothers you.. But men will never stop watching it, and if they do, something is totally wrong!!
2006-06-23 08:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by carilove79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first know that men like porn. This is just a fact. Men are sexually stimulated visually, much moreso than women. If it bothers you, ask him to stop. He may or may not. But know that he will probably look at it, if given a chance.
I know it makes you feel inferior. No matter how much they say it doesn't mean anything, them looking at porn still tends to make women wish they looked/acted like porn stars. But try not to let it bother you. Ask him if he's thinking of porn stars when he's with you. I'm betting they're the last thing on his mind.
2006-06-22 17:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ranavain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Won't really get into it but just to say....its demeaning to woman and an attached man should understand that and not do it or at least not let you know he does. If he is with someone he loves then that should be enough for him. I can't believe what these people are saying...NOT ALL MEN WATCH PORN...THATS REDICULOUS.........HOW CAN ANYONE SAY THAT EVERY MAN IN THE WORLD WATCHES IT.........OH PLEASE.. I would kick his *** out as far as I could if you ask him not to do it and he still does. Stand up for yourself and that smut!!!
2006-06-22 17:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not break up.Watching porn is one thing,if he is choosing it over you then you need to confront him and try to work it out.Some men have an addiction to it and this is just like a disease,He needs help for it if he is that obsessed with it.Would you want him to dump you if you developed a disease?????Pray for him and try to get him help if it is that bad.If he just enjoys it occassionaly then let him be.We all have a habbit of some sort that others disagree with.This may be his.This does not mean you have to dump him for it,Just don'''t do it yourself if you do not want to.
2006-06-22 17:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy likes to watch porn at least once in a while. its not like your boyfriend is cheating on you or having an affair with another women. but if it gets to the point where he is too interested in porn, and doesnt pay attention to you, then sure why not.
2006-06-22 17:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't break up with him. All guys like porn. Any guy who says otherwise is lying. If you want him to stop , your asking for too much. you might be able to get him to slow down. But you have to satisfy his sex drive so that he doesn't need or want to look at porn.
2006-06-22 17:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with porn? i love porn and im a girl. especially watching it with my bf. be glad its just porn and not the real thing
2006-06-22 17:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a very hard time finding a boyfreind who doesn't like porn. If it bothers you that much though, you need to do something. Just be aware that you may be alone for a very long time.
2006-06-22 17:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Batty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first tell him about your feelings and try talk it over :-)
Well , I don't think I could stay with a guy who is watching it regularly, I would get it as cheating and I know some guys thinking the same way.
2006-06-22 20:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋