2006-06-22 17:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The human body is programed for sex. When you're young, you're at your most fertile, usually, and that makes horomones just rage. When you love someone, that intimacy feels only natural as the next step, but love is as you stated, is not marriage.
Society HAS made it acceptable for people to have sex outside of marriage thanks to our media. We think "everyone's doing it" so our minds get a reason to tell our bodies to "go ahead". The fact is, not everyone IS having sex before they're married. It is a struggle, but it a worth-while one.
The fact that it is difficult for you is good! It means you haven't just given in. Keep up the hard work. And remember:You can never re-give away your viginity.
2006-06-22 17:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hormones. Take a hungry male adult dog and give him a choice between a nice mid rare steak and a bitc* dog in heat, and see which one he picks FIRST.
Procreation is utmost in weeding out other genes. It's kind of like capitalism, if you aren't there first, then you either lose or wind up supporting someone else's progeny.
2006-06-23 00:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by careercollegestudent69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love them and sex is a natural way of expressing love. However, it is necessary because the primary purpose of sex is to produce children out of a consumated marriage. Outside of marriage, it is pure lust and nothing else. It is vile outside of marriage and pure and wonderful inside. The urges are only natural though.
2006-06-23 00:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my own opinion maybe it is really difficult for other people to prevent sex if they don't really love that person,thats why they cant refuse of the thing they called "lust"or somekind of temptation!for me sex is not normal for people who are not yet married because i do believe that sex is a sacred thing and a gift of GOD for married one's!i do believe also that if you really love that person you can easily refuse from temptation because you have the ability to respect that person if you really love him or her!
2006-06-23 00:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by angel134sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult because you want to be able to feel as close to that person physically as you do emotionally. You want to feel your 2 bodies as one <3
2006-06-23 00:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in todays society sex doesn't mean anything anymore!!!
You should wait if it means that much to you. Personally, i think this world would be a better place if we had at least SOME MORALS!!!
2006-06-23 00:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are in love with them and sex is such an intimate relationship. But it is the right thing to do.
2006-06-23 00:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your body tells you to hump but the girl you're with says wait.
2006-06-23 00:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by good knower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you love them and want to share that physical connection.
2006-06-23 00:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray through the temptation. That's how we did it.
2006-06-23 00:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋